There is a girl I like. She knows I like her, but won't really let me know how she feels. She has a lot of emotional baggage caused by emotional abuse by her parents, and ex-boyfriends, and friends in general. She has problems being open with others. How can I get her to see that I won't hurt her if she opens up to me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? EmbracedxRain answered Sunday July 25 2004, 9:53 pm: Well I can sorta get the way she feels considering I've had trouble opening up to people in the past. Basically, just talk to her. Let her know that you aren't going to hurt her, and that you only want to help. Tell her you care about her and you would really like for her to open up to you and show you how she feels. But if you talk to her, hang out with her and she starts to learn in he rmind that you care, she'll most likely open up to you. It migh ttake time, but if you truely care about her that won't matter. Hope I helped... -Amber. [ EmbracedxRain's advice column | Ask EmbracedxRain A Question ]
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