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so confused!
im a girl and im 12 years old and going into 7th grade. i asked a guy out and he is really shy, but when i asked him out he said no nd whenever ppl ask him y he doesnt like me or y he doesnt wanna go out w/ me he either says idk and walks away or usually says nothin nd walks away. a couple weeks ago me and my friend called him and she asked if he liked me and he just said he had 2 go so we were asuming he just didnt wanna answer that question. one of his best friends told me hat the reason he mite not wanna go out w/ me was bc he was shy. so then i told him 2 ask him if that really was the reason and he said that he just didnt wanna go out w/ me. then my other friend called him and asked if he liked me and he said no. do u think that cuz hes 2 shy is the reason he doesnt wanna go out w/ me? or do u think that he really doesnt like me and doesnt wanna hurt my feelings bc hes really sweet like that? even if the reason was that he was shy tho, why would he say no when ppl ask him if he likes me? do u think that if i ask him out myself personally then he will say yes cuz my friend said that if i did that then he might. also one of his best friend's that i was talking about b4 who told me the reason he doesnt wanna go out w/ me might be bc he was 2 shy was in a simillar situation. one of my best friends liked him and asked him out and he said no. now they are going out and he really did like her b4 when he said no he was just 2 shy 2 go out w/ her. do u think he told me that my crush might just be 2 shy 2 go out w/ me bc their friends and they might be alike so hes basing it on his experience? sorry it was so long.
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Well, Most guys going into 7th grade are shy. They all want g/f but most of them wouldn't know how to act once they got one. I say Go for it! What do u have to lose. The reason he might be saying no is because he doesn't want to answer to random people. First become his really good friend. I mean he has to know you like him by now with all those people asking him. Then,maybe you'll build up his courage into asking you out (that would save all of the fears of being rejected from you asking him out ;)..) or ask him out yourself. Confidence is sexy to a guy at least thats what all my guy friends say.. And if he says no.. what do you have to lose.. I guess he just doesn't know what hes missin, but at least you know you tried.. and besides,next time you ask out a guy you'll have more confidence and you won't be as nervous(if you are). I say, just get to know him.... be a good friend, who knows .. maybe you won't even like who he is as a person. And just because people are friends doesn't mean that there alike in every way...just because your friends b/f was shy and needed the girl to ask him out doesn't mean your guy is. You have to do what you feel is right..
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