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ive been with this dude for almost a year. we're very serious about eachother. my mom doesnt allow me to date, so she doesnt know about this at all. i am in love with this guy, and we have gone very far.. farther than most couples. i love him, i CANT talk to my mom about it. that isnt even an option. i just want to know if it is okay to still be with this guy even though you know in your heart you might be disobeying/losing your mom's trust? its such a hard decision, i need your help. a man's advice is always useful and different from a womans :)
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:). well, first of all, this is up to you and your relationship with your mother. if you are very serious about this guy, and you want to keep him at all costs, then do it. everyone is wrong at some point in their lives. as long as you two dont do anything that could end in something permanent, then i think that it should be ok. but thats only my personal view. im sure your mom has her own reasons that she doesnt want you to date people. i know its hard to be disobeying your mothers trust. its very hard, because shes the one that you can ALWAYS count on for everything. but this guy might be perfect for you. you never know, you might have found your soul mate early in life. if you think that this is so, then stick it out. yes, it will be very hard and perilous, but it will be worth it in the end if he is your soul mate. being in love is a big thing. usually you dont say something like that unless you really mean it. if you want to be loyal to your mom then maybe you should let this go.. but if you really really love him, then keep it going. its your choice. choose well.
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