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Question Posted Friday July 2 2004, 1:34 am

I met this guy and after 2 days of knowing him, I had sex with him. I used protection so everything is okay and stuff like that. But ever since I had sex with him he acts different like he brakes up with me all the time and then expects me to still be avilable whenever he needs me. Well about a week ago we broke up and I got a new boy friend but this new boy friend doesn't live to close to me.. Well my old boy friend wants to go back out with me, and i still like him and everything but I also like the new guy I am going out with just as much. But I feel like I should go back out with the first guy because I have already had sex with him and I'm afraid that if I don't go back out with him he is going to tell everyone that I had sex with him and I don't know what I should do, because if I go back out with him he is just going to use me agian like he always does. Should I go back out with him or not?
-- Thanks in advance!

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Flandrew14 answered Friday July 2 2004, 4:28 pm:
wow this sounds like a complicated situtation, well i dont really know enough about your new boyfriend to make a judgement about him, but you didnt say theres anything wrong about him, this other guy that you had sex with really sounds like a love them and leave them kind of guy, if your not comfortable with the fact that he cant have a serious relationship, and the only reason you would go back out with him is so he doesnt tell everyone what you to did, then i dont really think you should go back out with him, i know your worried about him telling everyone what happened, but if you not comfortable being in a relationship with him and you know hes just using you for sex, it doesnt sound like a good relationship...you should avoid this guy in my opinion
-good luck with everything-
-andrew

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