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I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a month now and i talked to a good guy friend of mine about how im not so sure how much he really likes me cause he never calls me or tries to get together with me and then that night i dont rememeber why or what i was crying about but usually when that happens i dream/imagine myself cuddling up with my boyfriend crying as hes telling me everything will be ok listening to everything i have to say or not say but this time i was imagineing myself with the guy friend i was talking to about my boyfriend. What does this mean?
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My thinking is either you're develloping feelings for your guy friend (which is common, by the by), or in your dream, you're just replacing your boyfriend with a more comforting figure, namely your guy friend.
You were crying about something, and your guy friend seems to be the one who comforts you more than your boyfriend, so your subconscious stuck him in the picture instead of your real boyfriend. If the fact that your boyfriend doesn't call you or try to get together with you is bothering you a lot, call your him and talk to him about it. Guys aren't mind readers (as we very well know, lol), so we have to be more open about what we're thinking. I always tell my boyfriend that if something's bothering him, he needs to talk to me, because as much as I'd like to be, I'm not psychic.
If you give them that reassurance, they should open up and tell you what's going on.
If you need more advice, don't hesitate to ask. I'm always here.
-Siren =) ]
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