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MY boyfrineds ignoring me!
Hi my name is jonelle. i am 13 and i am a female... i am having some boy trouble. My boyfriend went to mississippi to visit family for the summer and all the time we talked and he was always telling me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me and then he said that he would call me as soon as he got home and like an hour after he did i called his house and his mom tells me he is out with his friends!!! we have been going out for 3 months and we havent done anything! i mean like kiss ing hungging.. WE HAVEN'T EVEN HELD HANDS! I mean i lived with out it for the first 2 months but i mean 3 months and nothing but that isant the point here. He never wants to hang out with me and he never returns my phone calls! some days he tell me that he cant do anything and i see him with his friends and then i am like well i thought u couldnt do anything and he is like uhhhh i never said that. my friends say i dont deserve to be treated like that and they tell me break up with him but i love him to much! i dont know what to do. I need ADVICE!
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jonelle, i love your name first off! :) wow.. sweetie, he definitally is ignoring you! geeze em crow! you definitally dont deserve to be treated like that at all..but i can see how you love him alot and want to be with him. hes special to you and all you want is to be with him. be honest with him and come out and tell him that you want to spend more time together...if he really likes you he definitally should spend time with you. if not, then hes not worth it! your only 13 you have the REST of your life to be with guys!:) believe me..as soon as you hit high school its HEAVEN with hotties! haha! anyways, as for the not doing anything..try and make the first move! I know its kinda scarry..but just go in and hold his hand..the worst that could happen is him reject you..and if he does then hes not worth your time and effort. i know he means alot, but sometimes you just have to let go of those kind of people. it reallie sounds like hes just usuing you for the privillage to say i have a g/f..which isnt right AT ALL! if worse comes to worse..say something to one of his friends...yah they prolly act ALOT like him..but try and make your point clear that you feel like you two dont spend enough time together and you reallie care about him. If things dont clear up within a few days, then screw it. there are plenty other guys. Keep your head held high and think positive!:)
x0x-dani
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