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I NEED HELP WITH BOYS
i dont want to say my name but lets say my name is Lucy My Bff's is Tina and the boy is Darnell ok me and "tina" r best friends and we both like Darnell but u c i like darnell more then tina and darnell like tina more then me and sumtimes it feels like she replaces me 4 him or sumtimes fronts around him ( u no act different ) but i try to let it go but a lot of ppl like lets say her name is loraine she likes to make me mad at darnell by makin up fake stories jus cuz he dont like her so wut should i do??????? I'm 14 and im a female
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Thanks for asking a question in my advice column! I can relate to how you and your best friend like the same guy...that happens a lot these days! It's not like you can get her to stop liking him or anything...because you can't change someone else's feelings for someone else. I hate the feeling of being "replaced" too. It's not a great feeling at all...I hear ya! When someone tries to act different around a guy...u know that you need to talk to them right away. She's your best friend because of how she always was...not because of the other person she's trying to be just for him! That's good you try to let it go. I'd suggest talking to your best friend and letting her know that you miss the way you guys always like hung out...how u know you were closer....trust me this has happened to me before! I had a heart-to-heart conversation with her...and now everything is so great. We are closer than ever! I would also suggest that you talk to your other friends about the stories they make up. That's not a very kind thing they are doing and if you don't like it..I think you should also talk to them...and let them know. They will never know how you are feeling unless you talk to them! I hope this helps. Please let me know what happens and how everything turns out!
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Katie:)
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