There are some people I've known practically all my life and I have always considered my friends, best friends even! But lately I don't really know what to think, they always do things without me, they never call to hang out anymore, it's like they forget I'm here unless I make the plans, which if I do that they have often lied and said they had to do other things when really they didn't. I really do not want to stop being friends with them, I don't know what to do!!!!
-female, 14
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? KaRmEL answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 10:51 pm: i've been in this situation before. you have to talk to your friends and ask them if there is anything wrong. sometimes the problem is that you aren't in a very good mood and they don't want to be around you alot anymore or maybe the problem is they don't think you are fun. you may not think the problem is you but you might want to ask them if you are doing something wrong to make sure you aren't the problem. i don't know if this is making sence but the point is to just talk to them. [ KaRmEL's advice column | Ask KaRmEL A Question ]
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