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I enjoy sex a lot but i'm rarely in the mood. My boyfriend says that i'm probably seeing someone else but im not.And i notice if im not really in the mood i get these cramps in my legs. My boyfriend tries his best to satisfy my sexual needs and he accuses me of thinking only of myself. What can i do? Is there some sort of cure 4 this? I am still attracted to him
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If your not in the mood then your not in the mood. If he cant respect that then you both need to have a conversation about respect.
Its ok to not want sex all the time. And I understand that he has needs but instead of rushing you right into sex (and your legs hurting) he can *do other things* that might get you in the mood. Has he ever heard of 4play?
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yes there is a cure for this lol it's called viagra but i think u are a lil young to have to start with that
i had to g/f one time who was never really in the mood much it never really turned out for the good but we wont talk about that
i would try to please him more like if it's normaly him givin u oral then u go down on him for a change and like if stuff like that doesn't help much then u must not be attacted to him as much as u think u are or u are just not physicaly attracted to him but let me know how that goes please
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If these are muscle cramps drink alot of water and 4 play is a good thing. don't just jump into sex. have fun build ur self up to it. itz just that u may get tired of the same thing. get like kinky and stuff try new enviroment. hope that helps u wit ur problem
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It's definatly not him. Maybe you're thinking of different things... i mean, if you're not in the mood then it's his job to make you in the mood. You're probably in the mood, there's just something holding you back. When sex comes up with him, concetrate on only him, and what he's doing to you. If you don't feel in the "mood" then let him lead you into the mood... Try and not think about anything but him and what he's doing to you, it helps me alot cause i do the same thing you do.. maybe it's your nerves doing this...
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