im nearly 17 and my bf is 17 and when we went to have sex his penis did'nt fit in it went soft and it happened the next time hes a bit worried about it and about his size i told him that it does'nt
matter is there anything we can do about this?
It's not uncommon for a man's penis to go soft. Unfortunately, a very common cause of this is being worried about it.
Usually if a penis "doesn't fit" it's because one or both of you isn't aroused enough. Just keep up the foreplay until you are literally nearly dripping and he is hard all the way up to head. Many people find oral sex to be helpful, and saliva is a good initial lubricant, even if it does "wear off" quickly. [ dreamingkat's advice column | Ask dreamingkat A Question ]
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