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my boyfriend & i have been seperated for almost a month.i no he really still loves me and i really still love him.i miss him yall 4-real.we still talk every night as we always have and all.but lately hes been actin real weird like he dont wanna talk to me but he made me promise him that wed always be best friends and i dunno wat to do
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Wow.. this has happend to me.. so listen up girl.. and ill tell u what u have to do.. first off.. u have to keep telling urself its over.. because while u still love him and he still loves u.. ur not together.. stop thinking about him.. try a new guy.. like start talkin to another guy.. chill alot with ur friends.. and just dont bring him up.. or keep urself too busy to even think about it.. try not to talk to him everynight like let him leave u a few mesgs.. and u do the same.. let him know that ur a strong independent woman without him.. if you really want to get over him.. honestly.. to tell u the truth being bestfriends isnt the best thing.. i know u promised but to me it sounds like he uses u as a fall back girl.. like when he needs to hear something from a girl(like i love u) or just to know that theres someone always there.. he calls u up.. so its kinda a security blanket to him.. knowing someones always there.. and i think u think of him as something different.. its time to move on.. the sooner the better.. trust me *it'll work out* theres other fish in the sea.. and u will love again xoLindsey
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How are you really sure that he still loves you? I think that maybe he's been "acting weird" because he may have found someone new. If you guys are separated, it means, that you have the freedom to start seeing other people -- not keep having him in your mind all the time like if you were still together.
This may seem a little harsh, but you're not WITH HIM AND HE'S NOT WITH YOU ANYMORE. He probably has token advantage of his new freedom and started seeing someone else and he doesn't feel comfortable talking to you, while so.
Ask him what's really going on, and if what I said is true, THEN I think you should definitely continue being friends with him, AND also look for someone new.
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well may be he likes a another girl and he does't want the girl to think he is still with you
dont worry yours truely starminer
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Being best friends with someone you just broke up with is nearly impossible. It makes it hard to get over each other and find closure. You can talk to him, tell him how you feel. If he's growing distant now, you've got nothing to lose. there's a few reasons why he could be doing this, and it might not have anything to do with you. you could try asking him why he seems distant lately.
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