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Soap opra in middle school
My bffl is like so totally going out with this guy that she really likes and he totally likes her. they have been wanting to go out since like the 3rd grade and finally like 5 years later they are. But the problem is, is that like 2 of my friends, and me like so totally hate is guts! He calls us bitches and is always extra meen to us at recess and lunch. He purpusly spills our stuff.
Another problem with her relationship is that my other freind totally likes him too. and she thinks that my other friend should break up with him so that she can go with him. but I think that they should both break up with him and nobody go with him because he is a total bully. But, if my friend loves him.....I want the best for my friend. Every time I try to talk to her she acts like I'm ruining her love life! What should I do!?! I need serious help!
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Thanks for asking a question in my advice column. I'd first like to say that you are on the right track for talking to your friend about it...and wanting the best for your friend. Of course, it is your friend's decision on her own love life, you also may be part of it in a way..if you all hang out together or what not. If they really like each other, they will find a way to work things out. But, I do think that it is wrong of your friend to still go out with him when he calls you bitches and all...cause face it ....that's just plain mean. It would be a different story if he came clean and didn't talk that way to you guys after your friend and him started going out. Unfortunately, that doesn't seem to be the case though. I do not think you are ruining her love life...just because you care so much about her...that is why you are helping her. I think that since you have already tried to talk to your best friend, talk to her boyfriend and tell him how you really feel about the whole situation...then hopefully he will talk to her about it and things will get better...Also, keep talking to your best friend...in the nicest way possible....and let her know it's all going to be ok..that things will work out for the better. I wish you all the best:) Please ask another question when you want! Also, it would be nice if you told me what happened!!:) Good Luck!!
*~KaTiE~*
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