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Guy Trouble
Hiya!
I'm Annie (13, fem, MD). There's this guy and we used to be together like last year but I gave him the dump. I'm starting to feel that it was a mistake- I mean thinking about it, I can't remember why I dumped him in the first place. It was for my own good, and I know good from bad, don't smoke straight-A's only drink a little is my description. But this guy- he's so amazing. I totally can talk to him really closely and he has all these amazing aspirations for his life. He hangs with me at parties a little but he's a little safe- no kissing, no sex, though he is a druggie. I like the fact that he has very few friends- I admire people who don't require a possie to function. SO anyway, you probably are accustomed to giving guys advice but I really hope you can help me. I need to know if he likes me at all. How can I tell? And if so, what moves should I make, like how fast should I make them, aswell? And what can I do to keep him liking me? Please help!
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***~I'm pretty cute looking, but I havee kinda small boobs. Would him being predjudice against that be a big factor in the eqation, particularly at this age? Do guys REALLY care about that?
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Heh, nope, I give everyone advice...
Anyway, you sound like someone anyone would be glad to have, and whist some guys do worry about the size of a girls breasts, they probably arn't the one's we would want to date [as this usuallymeans they only have a few things on their mind]. Well its usually a good idea to flirt with him a little, if he returns the favour then he probably likes you.The other sure fire way is to write a note, or ask him. Umm as for moves, I'm hoping you are not meaning sexcual advances, you are well under the age of consent. But you need to do what feels right for both of you and your situation, ie, maybe start with holding hands, then cuddling, then maybe kissing. Fastness again, its up to you and him to decide what you feel comfortable with. If he is uncomfotable with somthing you do then he sould tell you. As for keeping hm liking you, well if he likes you in the first place then you shouldn't need to do anything, however remember that you are only 13 and have lots of time to find the right partner.
I am however a bit concerned when you say he is a drug addict, I would be very careful on that point, as many drug users/ abusers tend to tun violent towards their partner, so be careful and as soon as trouble starts get the hell away from him.
Home some of that ramble helped, and good luck :)
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