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Heartbroken


Question Posted Sunday April 25 2004, 4:42 pm

I recently wrote a guy, who I'll call "Bryan", a note, which said that I liked him as more than just a friend. After four days of waiting for a response, my friend brought it up when they were talking. He said that he likes me as "just a friend, if not less than that." Bryan also told my friend that he likes some girl named "Sandy". It sucks, because I feel like he led me on. He'd always smile at me, blush when I came up in a conversation, etc. He even said that I was cute. What irritates me the most, is that it took Bryan four days to tell me how he feels about me, when he could've just straight-up told me how he felt. I've been trying to get over him, but he just keeps trying to make me feel worse about being rejected. He's friends with my friend, and ever since I was rejected, he's been hanging out with her a lot more. He sat down at my lunch table on Friday, and had a huge conversation with her, about the girl he likes. I had to walk away, and almost started crying. It hurt so much, and it still does. He's being a huge jerk, and I don't know how to get over him. HELP.

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PepeLePew answered Monday April 26 2004, 1:08 am:
Maybe he was shy at first, and probably still is, so he's trying to "show" you that he doesn't like you because for some reason, he may think that you are not getting the idea.

Try to tell him not to push it.

It's not going to be easy to stop loving him, so don't take it hard, k?

:)

Someday, it'll all be normal again.

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JayJay answered Sunday April 25 2004, 11:34 pm:
I know how u feel,that's my life to, what u need to do is start getting him back and showing him how he treated u, thats what I did, now the guy that did that , ps I liked him alot to , but now he's afraid to go around me with out bushing and now every gurl likes him but won't go out with him,. I hope I helped and now I got to go .
I'm JayJay and u can email me at this address, jenipher_1989@hotmail.com
or go to the columnist and look for JayJay.

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AuTy answered Sunday April 25 2004, 6:21 pm:
Hey Heartbroken.....
Well this Bryan guy is suppose to be your friend right? well seems to me.. he isnt.. If you really want to get over him then just stop being friends with him. You dont need that negatevity in your life.To make you and your life happy youre gonna have to eliminate one person even though it hurts.. God will see yoyu through it and eventually Bryan is gonna come crawling back to you and ask for forgiveness.. just be patient..
He's not really a true friend

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joejr answered Sunday April 25 2004, 6:11 pm:
Well my advice would be to let it go because if someone doesn't appreciate you for who you are than you should just move on.

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