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ive been married to my husband for three years together 4 yrs.when we got together i told him i was a virgin and he told me he had slept with around 25 girls which was fine and didnt bother me.after i had my son call it hormones i accused my husband of cheating one night after a row he admitted yes he had cheated at the start of the relationship because i never gave him sex ive never trusted him since.
then about 2 mths ago when he was drunk he told me he had lied he hadnt cheated on me he had said it out of anger and that he too was a virgin when we met but was too embarassed to tell thetruth him being older.
now hes away to canada with the army for 8 wks and ive only had one call he swears he loves and misses me but i dont know whether to believe the virgin story again 7 mths pregnant im a bit anxious of what he could be getting up to help.
im a 25 year old emale
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I am kind of in the same situation u are in. I too am married to a military man. My husband cheated on me 2 mos after i had our child but before then he was so trustworthy. After that theres the usual "i'm sorry , i didn't mean it." type crap. i made him make a decision me or her. he DIDN't want to choose so i left him. (this is before we got married.) I spent about 5 mos away from him, only to end up finding out that i was pregnant with his second child and we got back together. 1 month later i knew i still loved him and we got married. The lying and playing games continued and made the marriage sour to the point where we are going through a divorce as we speak. What im saying to you is that to not let your gaurd down if u feel you dont trust him now. there's a chance that he could be telling the truth about his virginity, or about he slept with 25 women. you'll never know for sure. but DON'T ever stress about it! its not worth it. you can try and sweep it under the rug and see where it goes or try to resolve the matter and take it from there. I will tell you this if you know him well like i knew my hubby then when he gets home to you, see how badly he wants to be intimate with you. how much time he is willing to spend. if u see changes chances are that he is cheating or have recently cheated. Thats how i found out my proof on mine. But just keep ya eyes peeled and dont tell him anything. and dont let ya gaurd down until he EARNS your trust again!
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You can never know with a guy like that.
Tell them he should tell you the truth because that's all you really need to know. Saying things like 'Yeah, I did cheat on you' isn't a game. You'll love him no matter what, like when you accepted that he 'had sex with 25 different women' before he met you.
You loved him, you can love him now, but if he does or/and did cheat on you, then there is only one way and that is to leave him. He did it once, he can do it again.
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Well if you love him and you are happy with him then everything will be alright. You did marry him you do love him...
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