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is my man really in love with me
Okay i've been with this guys for over 3 years on and off. I'm crazy about him i would give the world for him , he just recentally told me he loved me. But he don't acted like it he's kinda mean to me alot and he just broke up with me at this party he was at, and had sex with this other women. Then the next day told me he loved me and he never meant to break up with me and im the only one for him and all this stuff. He said that didn't mean nothing to him.He was all messed up and it would never happen again. But i don't know what to do please tell me i need help so bad i love him so much and im carrying his baby!!! Im 17 and im a female.
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If he is mean to you a lot, this does not look good for the future. He had sex with another girl and told you it was because he was all messed up -that's not a good enough excuse. I think the fact that you are pregnant with his child makes him think he can completely take advantage of you. (I am assuming he knows you're pregnant.)
He's mistreating you. You are in a very vulnerable position right now, being pregnant. Think about this - what would life be like if you break up with him? If you do, he will get the message that you insist on better treatment than you have been getting, and can stand on your own. He may be treating you badly just because he believes you are dependent on him (which it sounds like you are) and he is resentful. If you can show him you don't need him as much as he thought, he may straighten up.
You also say that it has been on and off for 3 years. It doesn't sound like there has been much commitment.
Don't break up unless you really can do without him. I think you would be better off though.
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