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I'm a 14 year girk l and i don't have a father ok my mom didn't tell my dad that i was his daughter till last year.After he found out he still doesn't talk to me his wife don't like me either i don't talk to my dads side of the family i have alot of brothers and sisters and i only know one of them. My brother dad and my dad are cousins and my brothers dad is a crake head and he was the only father that was there for me half of my life he was in and out of jail.My mom won't take my dad for childsupport she said to many headaches what do i do
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talk to your mom and your real dad abut how you feel. Also ask your dad to spend qality time with you. Your dad's family will have to put up with you, but always have a smile on your face and try to be very polite. After time they will get used to you. If you have any other questions you can always im me at bebexoxox@aol.com
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Maybe, your mom should talk to Social Security! Even though you love her (but not your dad) then you can be assigned new parents(or go to you a family member to stay with) But while going somewhere else, you should get a pshiciatrist!
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You need to find some good male role models because fathers give their daughers their beliefs about what men are like. Since your family is kind of problematic, start thinking of families you know where there is a good father in them. I don't mean you need to be friends or close to them. This at least gives you an idea of the kind of man you would like to be with in the future.
The person who acted as your father, your brother's father, although he did care for you, is not a good role model because of drug addiction, but you can be thankful for the good things about him.
Your biological father didn't know about you until you were 13, so he doesn't feel close to you, and maybe it feels uncomfortable now. If he has a wife and children, they may feel very strange about it, too. Maybe with time things will improve, but I don't think you can force anything. Maybe if you go slowly and carefully you can develope a relationship with him. You can might him every week or so and just tell him you want to get to know him, you are not trying to do anything more than that. Then talk about normal things, nothing that sounds accusing or emotional, like he is a stranger (because he is.) I don't know if this will help.
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