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Forgiving and forgetting?
My boyf moved 350 miles to start a life with me and our baby, he left his family and friends to be with me. I love my boyf more than anything but his past gets to me. Every relationship he has had has ended because hes been with another girl he loves the attention of girls and when i first started seeing him he had a girlfriend so i know how he can be. When my baby was 8 weeks old his brother came to visit us and i think it upset him he felt a bit left out of his old life, anyhow when i came home one night i found my boyf sending dirty txt messages to a girl. He spoke about her but never in a way he fancied her, it broke my heart and threw all my confidence i had in myself, him and our relatioship away. After many long chats i decided to give him another chance. He has been brilliant to me but Im so scared that it will happen again its been 8 months since it happended but it still hurts like hell. I get so moody and grumpy with him when i think about it i know the way i act could push him away how can i get over this. How can i forgive and forget?
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Sending dirty text messages? You are really paranoid. It almost sounds like you expect him to cheat on you. What's up with that? Look in the mirror and tell yourself that it's best for you and your baby if you have some confidence in him. He doesn't sound like such a bad guy so don't give up on him.
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