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"My" Bi Guy
Hey, me again. Thanks for the advice! The thing is, I'm not so sure he does like me. Like I said, he's way too confusing, because he does act like it at times (like today: I came up behind him and gave him a hug, and he saw me and said "Yes! There really is a God! I love you Jesus!"...and then Monday, he started off ignoring me 'cause I guess he got mad at me, but then at lunch, he walked up to me and said "I was supposed to be ignoring you today, but I missed you" and we hugged....and, well, he's just nice a lot of the times) but then again, he's really nice to all the girls he's friends with. Really, he's just that way. Ooh, he even gave two girls a kiss on the cheeck- not a huge deal, but I wanted to kill them! Green-eyed monster...
Anyways, so I guess I'll just have to see about that. Okay, I'm way too chicken to directly ask him about his sexuality. So, I've developed a plan (that will probably backfire, but I'll try it anyways): tomorrow at school is a half day, and on half days certain clubs meet. I know that he's in this one club called Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA) and he refuses to admit that he's in it. Well, he just ignores me when I ask what clubs he's in. So, I think that first I'll ask him which club he's going to, and let him ignore me. At the end of the day, I plan on dropping by the GSA meeting. He'll be there, and he can't deny that he's in it then(unless he uses the "evil twin" tale).
That could go wrong: maybe he won't go, but if so, I'll say to him (whenever I see him again) "I didn't see you in GSA Friday. Why weren't you there?" I have friends that know him and know he's in it, and I'll hammer down on him until he gives in.
It'd be so much simpler to ask him, but like I said, I'm a chicken.
Anyways, the thing I really need advice on is this: After spending a whole day ignoring him, he came up to talk to me and after that was really talkative and nice to me. I think it's one way to get his attention (I didn't totally ignore him, but I didn't go out of my way to talk to him), so do you think I should keep it up? I only did it once, and he's been nice all week, but maybe the less I tak to him, the more he'll want to talk to me. I don't know, it could have nothing to do with that. It could just have to do with his moods. It was just some advice I found in one of those self-help books.
Thanks for taking the time to help me, I really appreciate it!
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I think you've stumbled upon a helpful principle... absence makes the heart grow fonder. A little away time makes together time that much better.
As for visiting the GSA, well, the whole point of GSAs is to get gays and straights working together, for fun and activism. So even if he is there, unless he's giving a presentation on coming out or something, it only means so much.
Really, if you feel he's the best thing since chocolate-covered strawberries, you should just let him know somehow. After all, he's wonderful first and bi second from where you're standing (if he's bi). If he's pure, no-girls-allowed gay, he'll let you know at that point, I would think.
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