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friends and guys
ok one of my friends said your good at giving advice so here it goes..i really like this guy and everyone thought he liked me..well today i told him that i like him over the phone on an answering machine then my friend (who you gave advice to) asked him and he said no he dont like me...i dont know what to do because now i think my friend likes him so yeah marry chritmas to me and a wonderful year to start off well can you help me out please because i feel like i'm going to go balistick litterally well tell me what to do...
-lovedontexist
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First off, this sort of thing happens pretty often so dont feel bad. There's a few things that could be going through his head...He could be lying about not liking you (if he doesnt know your friend that well, y would he tell her who he likes?), he might like someone else, he might not have thought about it before he knew you liked him so he doesnt really know yet, he might just like you as a friend, or possibly, he could be gay lol. And then, theres a few ways you can deal with it. Keep trying and just be a good friend to him (now that he knows you like him he can think about if the feelings mutual), just forget about him and move on, just forget about it for a while and let it sort of work itself out,(as in, just kind of be normal and give whatevers gonna happen on its own a chance to), just give it time, (he could delvelop feelings for you later if he doesnt have them now). Just whatever you do, DO NOT obsess over it. Thats a big turn off and it gets you no where fast. In my opinion, I say you just chill out about it, explore other roads, and guys lol. But I dont think you should forget about him completly, just let him know the options still there, without making it really obvious. And about your friend, talk to her about it(your thinking she likes him), and tell her how you feel, see if its right, and if it is, you guys can work something out so you dont have to worry about it. Remember "Guys come and go but friendships last forever". As corny as that might sound, its completly true. But if you want to find out for sure what hes thinking, maybe you should try asking him yourself in person? This is all up to you, these are just ideas to get you thinking. Now ponder a little, and make your decision. Remember, it will be ok..and so will you.
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