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no contact allowed
there's this hot guy that i really like at church and i know he likes me too. so in general, we like eachother. sounds good, huh? well, neither of us are allowed to date. and we cant go secretly cause his dad is the pastor there. the only time we make contact/talk/hug and stuff is when we're all alone and no one can see us and tattle. i can't stand this being a big secret and not being able to just hug him when i want to! how can i survive while sometimes wondering if this is all a big joke to him because we can't talk? can i survive the long way until we ARE allowed to date? (which is in college) somebody help me!!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Do you have to "date"? Maybe your parents will agree to just let you hang out. Really that's most of what dating is, I mean, the hugging and touching is nice but in a meaningful relationship you'll be comfortable doing 90% of what you do in front of everyone, even your parents. Just spend time together talking, it doesn't have to be dating. By making this such a big deal all you're doing is scaring the hell out of all the grown-ups and they'll never set you free.
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