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seeing blood twice during intercourse
finally I decided to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but I didn't see any blood and I was worried but d second time we had sex I saw bright red blood which stained the bed and i was relieved we had sex the third time am seeing blood again,please am confused and worried
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Since you didn't mention the time in between each incidence of sex, its hard to say.
If you are a teen and not having sex regularly but once a month or so, then that should have been enough time to heal. Any reoccuring blood then may indicate a problem that a Dr. can solve for you.
If as said, the incidents were days apart, you may not have healed enough and reopened a tear.
Don't think the only time you can get tears in the vagina occur only as a virgin having sex the first time.
The real issue from enough studies I've read of bleeding during sex is due to rips and tears from not being lubricated enough. That problem is usually easily solved with a water-based lubricant. If a female is turned on enough, her own natural lubricant will help in the beginning. But it can wear off with all the friction and be gone during the middle of sex. I am a female, married twice and also had plenty of boyfriends in between. And getting dry during sex happens more often than not. Older females tend to have problems with dryness however I wouldn't know if I do, my partners and I always have used lube before sex, no matter what. On the occasion my husband tries it without lube, there is too much pulling and friction and even he will feeling a pulling, tearing feeling on his cock before it actually tears. This mild to severa pain whether felt by the male or female is an indicator that lube is needed. Depending on how long a section of time each sex act is, the lube can and will wear off. Also, if a female's body is constructed so that instead of her orgasms ejaculations going straight into her bladder, come pouring out the vagina, as I do, that liquid is thinner than lube and washes all the lube away so we have to reapply if we want to continue.
I will share what my gynecologist reminded me every time I was in for a wellness checkup. "If you are ever in extreme pain that does not go away, or you have pain during sex, or you have heavy bleeding that won't stop, then you need to come in." So if you don't have any of those issues, then likely you are fine.
The only other problem where females experienced great pain and lots of blood is if they have a septate hymen. This means, instead of the hymen being a ring of extra tough but stretchy skin around the inner circumferance of the vagina, the extra skin is a strip going down the middle of the vagina leaving two smaller holes,big enough for your period fluids to pass through but not big enough to fit in a tampon or if that, not a mans penis. Depending on the size and toughness of that strip of flesh, it can easily rip and be very painful and cause much blood. Dr.s will usually remove this extra strip allowing you to go home same day. No biggie. If you had one, its likely ripped off at one end but still attached at the other. If friction from sex causes it to pain you or bleed again, you'd need to see a Dr. to have it removed properly and follow the instructions for how long to wait for it to heal before sex again.
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I don't think you have anything to worry about. The first time you had sex your partner may have pushed through the opening in you Hymen that is there to allow menstrual blood to drain. The second time he most likely ruptured your Hymen and that was the cause of your bleeding. The third time, and I'm guessing now, you may not have given yourself time to heal and the bleeding was he opened the wound caused when he ruptured your Hyman.
Give yourself seven to ten days to heal before having intercourse again. IF you pleas again then I would consult your GYN and find the cause of the bleeding.
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