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should i try and get back with her ? or let her go ?
so i was in a long distance relation but we broke up after 3 months and i tried to fix the problem but she just wouldn't even try and think about it and i tried texting her and she was reading those texts but not replying to any of them and she'd just say "idk what to say"
and after a while she said that i "spam" her with texts but all i sent was 3 texts telling how i feel about her and she called it "spam" and it hurt me a lot and so i blocked her on social media and also in the multiplayer game that we met ! . it's really hard for me to give up on her and i just love her a lot and at this point i'm just hurt a lot and thinking about her MOST of the time and idk what to do....
i'm thinking of reconnecting with her (i know i'm dumb but i just love her a lot) and i don't know whether this is the right thing to do....
i'm thinking of texting her in the game we met
so yea as i said before i'm just confused and don't know what to do that's why i'm asking for your help
Thank you for taking your time in reading this
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All break ups are tough no matter how it ended.
To me, it doesn't sound like she's as invested as you are. She didn't try to help fix the problems in your relationship and wouldn't reply to your messages.
It sucks loving someone who isn't returning your feelings. My advice would be to move on.
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Have you met this girl before? Break ups are tough i know. But if it only lasted 3 months i dont think its going to continue. I do think its nice yeah to reach out and say Hey i hope you are doing well. But i think if you just leave everything in the past it is way easier to move on for your heart and soul and mind. Its harder reopening a chapter that should already be closed. I don't know how old you are but im thinking you are young and there will be more woman in your life that you will be interested in. Long distance realtionships are hard and they are not easy. I think you just need to let her go for your own heart.
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I understand. It's hard to let someone go, but whether or not you try to rekindle your relationship with her is completely up to you. Try to measure out the pros and cons; you may have been happy before, but clearly you were miserable after the end of your relationship - can you really go through that pain again? If it's too much to handle, I would suggest trying to move on with your life, meet someone new and find happiness elsewhere. This decision is one only you can make, but there's nothing wrong with trying again one more time if that's what you need, you will either get her back or you will get closure and the ability to move on. So I would suggest going for it, giving it one last shot, see how it goes and if it doesn't go well, just accept it and try to get on with your life. Believe it or not, it IS possible to heal a broken heart. I wish the best of luck to you in your future.
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She has made things clear. It is over. Messaging her would just be a waste of time.
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been there with a guy named josiah cox. i loved him and havent been able loved anyone else in the same way. best tell her one last time, that also want that relationship with her and if she shoots you down, try try move on and love again or like someone again, which is what i am doing though would go back to him if my bf n i broke up. hope this helps and comforts you. but sounds like you deserve better.
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