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Dreams
I always research my dreams as I am a big believer that there's reasons and meanings behind them. However, I keep having dreams of my ex boyfriend, it's most likely my subconscious mind because I do miss him, but the dreams are really odd. Not only is he in my dreams, but they are so weird. I have had 2 dreams of where I have seen a picture of him with another girl but the pictures are blurry so I can't make out who she is but then last night I had a dream of seeing a photo of him, his auntie and his dad, they all looked the same apart from him, he was old with a gray, stubbly beard. I've searched all over the Internet but I can't get an answer, can anyone interpret this?
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One thing I know as far as dreams are concerned. Prophet yousaf (Joseph)PBUH had the miracle of dreams interpretation. He said never make up a fake dream and never tell your dream to anyone because if they predict it wrong then thats what the result will come out to be. So whenever you dream always say, it was a good dream first. Do not ask people to interpret for you and whatever interpretation they would give it would end up like that even if the real meaning of your dream was different. Wish you good luck and you had a good dream may it result good for you. Do also read the story of Prophet Joseph while he was in jail. You will get it on google.
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teehigh is right, we can only make suggestions but only you can know what answers ring a bell and sound of truth to you for your situation.
You are correct that your subconscious is involved. It all starts with thoughts and usually the thoughts of our awake mind when conscious. Ask yourself what you are thinking about him other than missing him. What are the reasons for splitting up? For example, did he decide to leave you but you still wanted to keep the relationship going? If one isn't willing, there isn't anything the other can do. So there may be rejection feelings on your part or wondering in what ways you may have been 'lacking' to him and there may be thoughts that if you could change some things about yourself, it might bring him back. I do not know your thoughts but often, what we desire, whether perfect for us or not, our subconscious picks up on that. And the sub feels its duty is to bring you happiness by making your wishes come true or at least that which you think on the most often. The subc. is also where our emotions reside so they are closely involved in anything the subc does and another things its in control of is our dreams. The subc. mind doesnt differentiate if what your thoughts dwell on are good things or bad things. Thus, people will fears of being robbed, or personally attacked will often find those things happening to them. The subc. mind will cause you to make bad decisions on purpose that place you in more dangerous situations where its more likely that these scary terrible things you think about and fear most, come true. Its a twisted way of acting like the Fairy Godmother trying to make your dreams come true. So even if theres no lingering issues in his mind, there must be in yours, and since you miss him, your sub allows you to see him in dreams hoping that will help. Seeing a blurry female with him is not something that you'd know in real life whether he is seeing someone else or not. That is just your conscious mind thinking that by now he must have found someone else and wondering what she is like and what she has that you don't. That is why in dream form, she is blurry because you don't know if there is someone or what she looks like. Now if you see a photo on facebook of his newest girlfriend, you will likely see her clearly in dream photos then since your mind now has a reference. Dreams don't always make total sense down to every last detail. The auntie and dad were two you actually knew how they looked, people in his life so thats why you could see them. They will always be a part of his life or his memories after they are gone. As to a girlfriend or future wife, being part of his entire life even when old at the end of his life, that is still up in the air and not settled. How does this affect you? If you are wanting to attempt to get him back, perhaps your subc is trying to say that until it is confirmed he has made a life time commitment to a new love, that there's always a chance.
However, what I want to caution you to, is that there can be two women or two men of equal wonderfulness, exactly alike. But only one is attractive while the other is not. Same goes for identical twins who even act the same. How is one preferred over the other then? I think its to do with pheremones, people emit them, animals do and its pheremones that attract a mate. Pheremones make the difference between I like you alot, have feelings for you, enjoy your company, maybe even love you, but I am not in love with you, and feel something is missing that I can't put my finger on. Theres nothing wrong with you but I feel you're not the right one for me. Most people can't put those feelings into words and don't know why they leave someone if there wasnt any big problems, fighting, abuse, etc. So dont be down on yourself. Understand that you are not lacking and that Mr Right is out there for you and hopefully soon your dreams will change to be a photo of you with a blurry man next to you or a clear face of what you tend to find attractive in looks of a guy. It doesnt mean the face you see is the person you will find in real life. Everyone has a free will to make their own choices. And until a choice has been made, the outcome of the future is iffy, based on other peoples choices, which often takes a situation totally out of your control or that of your mind, as evidenced by this split up if the guy decided to leave you. Hope this helps a bit dear.
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Hey there! I do some dream interpreting so I will help you out the best way that I can. Only the dreamer can know for sure the meaning of a dream. I can only try to offer suggestions and you will know if it fits. If you are dreaming of your ex, it definitely means that the you have unresolved issues or conflicts. Your subconscious mind wants you to work these out and you may not be able to move on until you do. You are seeing pictures of your ex because your subconscious mind wants you to "see" the truth. The pic with the other girl is your mind telling you that he has moved on. The picture of him being old is telling you that he is "old news." Not sure what the aunt or the dad could mean. Some questions you want to answer regarding the dream are: What do I want in the dream? What is the conflict? And what is the solution being shown to me? I feel that your dreams are telling you to move on from this guy. Don't wait around for him. There is a saying I recently heard, "God's rejections are God's protection." There is a reason it did not work out. Every ex-boyfriend is another step closer to our perfect mate. In the meantime, do things that make you happy, spend time with friends, and do something that you've always wanted to do. Nurture and love yourself. God bless.
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