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i need help asap!!! I have never bleed from my vagina while masterbating. And I'm a virgin please help me!!!!
I'm 16/f and I was masterbating with a object and it doesn't hurt and I'm not on my period so anyway I'm bleeding blood from there and I don't know what to do and I don't want to tell my parents. And I have been masterbating with a object for a while because I wanted to feel good but I have never bleed from my vagina while masterbating. And I'm a virgin please help me!!!!
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Don't worry, the exact thing happened to me and I researched and then finally after numerous questions on yahoo answers and this I figured it out. There's a phrase called popping your cherry (breaking your hymn). When you get penetrated there's a lining in your vagina. It will stretch for small objects and then one day it will break resulting in bleeding. Usually there isn't much blood, with me there was heaps, it just depends. It's a good thing though. When you go to have sex now it won't hurt as much. Or possibly u were a little bit to rough and made a small tear in your vagina which will also result in bleeding. Hope I helped :)
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There's such a thing as perhaps being too rough with yourself, or maybe scratching the skin inside your vagina with a fingernail or a really fine abrasive part on any object you used. The skin there is really sensitive and tender and can easily be stretched too much also without proper lubrication and bleed a little. You may get some spotting or pinkish liquid every time you wipe after peeing, but in a couple days it should stop. Even with a long time boyfriend, husband sex partner, a female can at times have some blood due to it being a bit too rough. Its not a bad thing,just like having a hickey is not bad and will heal on its own. You have nothing to worry about unless there is extremely strong pain or you have an incredibly strong flow that is filling pads almost as fast as you can change them. Those are the things my gyncologist always asked if I ever experienced and to make an immediate appt if it ever occured. Other than that, you're likely just fine.
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Today's definition of virginity is: You are a virgin until a penis actually penetrates your vagina the first time. It may be just for a second or you may actually have a full intercourse. It is the act of penetration by a penis that ends virginity by today's definition. It the old day a woman had to have an intact Hymen and needed to bleed on her wedding night to prove she was a virgin. That rule no longer applies given today's active woman and the fact that women now use Tampons. Tampon insertion and many of the activities of today's active woman can cause the Hymen to dislodge or rupture without a woman being truly aware.
In short you are still a virgin even with the toy you used as it is not a real penis. I hope this explanation fully answers this question.
As to the bleeding. We are not doctors but as adults we are knowledgeable in this area and this is what I think could be the problem.
1) It could be that you did rupture your Hymen. If so you will heal just as you would if it ruptured during intercourse.
2) It is possible you scratched yourself some how. Check the object to make sure there are no rough spots or sharp points before using it again.
3. It is possible to rub yourself raw, especially if you do not make enough lubrication on your own. K-Y or petroleum Jelly will make good lubricants. K-Y is best and if you check mom or dad's night stand the chances are good you will find some K-Y Jelly. Most all adults keep some on hand. (Pun not intended)
I would stop using the object to masturbate to give yourself time to heal. If the bleeding continues it is a good chance you Hymen has not fully separated and each time you use the object it tears a bit more.
At 16 years of age under a Federal Law called HIPPA you have the right to see a doctor for anything concerning your reproductive system without parental permission or knowledge. Your parents insurance still will pay for the visit. The visit is totally confidential and no one can know why you were r there without your written consent to the doctor to tell them, not even your parents. This concern falls under the HIPPA protection.
When you see the doctor for any visit concerning your reproductive system all you say to the doctor is this visit is under the HIPPA rules. This would include your annual physical for school if it includes a pelvic exam. If your mom is with you she will be asked to go wait in the waiting room until you are finished.
This law was passed by Congress for purposes just like this one so you can seek medical attention when needed and may be too embarrassed or afraid to ask a parent to take you to a doctor. You may go to a doctor of your choosing or any free clinic, or Hospital.
Since it is very possible that you have ruptured your Hymen at some point and part of it is still intact I suggest you seek out a GYN to exam and treat you. Make sure to tell the nurse you wish to be seen under the confidentiality rules of the HIPPA Law.
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ok its probably just because you went too deep or thrusted in yourself too hard. if you didnt use any type of lube, this can happen easily. youll heal just give it some time before you do that again
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