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How do yout get a 9th month abortion?
Please tell me how to get an abortion in my ninth month of pregnancy?
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An abortion at this time is illegal. If you even found someone to do so you and that person could and would be charged with murder as the child is viable and able to live outside the womb.
You don't give your reasons for wanting to end your pregnancy at this late date. Whatever they are they are not in the best interest of you or the baby. The best thing to do is to contact you County or State Social Service Agency or the Social worker at the hospital you plan to deliver at and arange to put the baby up for adoption when you deliver.
If you want it can be arranged for you to never see the baby. Once you deliver the baby will be moved into the next room, cleaned up and taken to the nursery. Depending on the time you deliver and how fast you recover you might even leave the hospital the same day or early the following day.
Social Services will find a good, loving home for the baby and you can go about your business after a few weeks rest. If you are not married you will not need the fathers permission to put the baby up for adoption.
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Abortion is only for the early months when a fetus is too small and undeveloped yet to survive on it's own.
So the idea of trying to have an abortion at this stage, is like forcing an almost fully developed child to be born early. It might easily born born alive without any difficulty surviving on its own. However, Many babies are born early and end up in intensive care until fully developed. What's the difference of 1,2 or 3 or 4 more weeks? If you don't want the baby, at least give it the few more weeks of development to be healthier at birth and allow someone else to adopt.
If you don't want to ever see it or know it's sex, the Dr.s won't tell you. The child can be whisked away into Nurses care and an agency work to find adoptive parents. There are so many people who can't have kids of their own and want a baby that they are willing to pay a woman to carry one for them.
As has been said, its not ethical for medical staff to perform an abortion at this point because of the fact the baby is developed enough to be able to be born alive and killing it after birth would be murder and they'd lose their license.
If you are worried about vaginal birth and pain or whatever, many Dr.s today are scheduling c-SECTIONS for perfectly normal women capable of giving birth naturally so that the birth can be conveniently scheduled and the woman given pain medication so she doesn't feel anything. If that's the issue, consider that route but You have to do the paperwork now, not at last minute.
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I'm afraid this is too late to be safe, ethical or legal. If raising the child (which it is by month 9) is simply not possible you must look at adoption. Bear in mind no even semi-reputable agency would entertain the idea of termination at this stage and I would advise you not to seek anybody who will. Assuming there are no medical complications during labour and birth you will soon have a child. It may seem daunting for some reason(s) of your own but really you may well be surprised at your ability to cope and the things you are capable of when it's a case of 'having to'. Keep your mind open and be ready to accept and love the new arrival. It's something really special. He or she will be needing you and relying on you. My best wishes.
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