Ever heard of Emmanuel, James? I have. He makes his books really expensive, like, $200 claiming only the “rich and privileged" could read his book. What kind of conceited, selfish,disgusting pig creates (this is based on reviews) an overpriced 10 paged book that only talks about how you wasted your money but you're rich and don't care and now can brag. Apparently, this dude thinks the rich are above all other people and they should be treated better. Can someone please tell me a way I can contact this @$$hole and tell him off?
People just plain old hate change, even you and I. We hate a change of address, change of jobs or schools, even if its something for the better...especially if it involves bettering ourselves on the inside. We are like hobbits, comfortable in our little hobbit hole and don't want anything to be different because its....SCARY!!! Yes, people of all ages battle this to some extent or another. By time we are adults, we may not like change but if we know its for a better living location or the painful and scary change in our personality for the better, then we kinda bite the bullet and push ourselves through and once out on the other side, and the experience of the change is over, at least I know I ask myself, why did I fight it so hard.
I know this sounds off topic from what you wrote about but the fact that you're so tee-d off at someone you can never change and you're venting steam at him will make no difference, tells me something about where you are at in life.
As long as you are focused on what everyone else is doing and let your mind get all worked up about that, you won't have to look at yourself and see where you can possibly improve as a person. I am in my 50's and still making changes and improvements for the better. It can be a life long process.
I am not saying you're a terrible person and need to fix your self. This is nothing different that what grade a student in school gets. An A student knows they get it perfectly and don't need to improve what they studied just study new things now. A "B" student knows that they can do a little better, and easily be an A student. And what about a D or and F=failed. If one failed at a subject, the grading system is nothing more than like an indicator light on the cars dashboard showing where there is a problem and so of course you focus the attention on yourself to work on areas that you can improve on.
The anger you focus in this direction may be due to angers and frustrations from other areas of your life where you felt you had no control over to change and perhaps that is so if you are not yet an adult in age. A build up of anger, and taking things personally like this, is going to need an outlet which isn't always directed at what caused it to begin with. You have a choice in life that no matters what happens to maintain control over your emotions and learn how to respond rather than react. A reaction is instantaneous action without thinking of consequences or thinking the whole thing through, while a response looks at it from all possible angles and whether its worth getting involved or what kind of action is needed if at all. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
Razhie answered Monday March 17 2014, 1:00 pm: Why bother?
The man is not an author. He's an internet troll. He made a really stupid book, said a bunch of stupid things he knew would make people mad, and then sat back and enjoyed his fifteen minutes of being famous for being a dick.
All he wants is for lots of people to get angry with him, make more posts online about his stupidity, and then hopefully to sell the book a few times to idiots who have enough money to waste on it.
He wants you ask make angry posts like this and write angry letters. The best way to shut these sorts of assholes down is to simply ignore them. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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