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pre ejaculation
i am 19 yrs old . i am a virgin . i and my boyfriend were having fun. i was wearing my panties . his pre ejaculation fluid touched my panties and i think it touched my vagina also . usually my periods are always late by a week or so . actually all this happened on may 5th and i was supposed to get my periods on may 10 th but i dint get them till now. i did home pregnancy test 4 times till now . i did the test today also . but the result is negative always but i dint get my periods yet. i am very very tensed . are there still chances of me getting pregnant ? plz help me .
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Possible, but very, very unlikely.
The question is: after this scare, what will you change? Because if you keep going the way you are, you two will eventually have unprotected sex. It's kinda what "fun" leads to.
3 options:
1 - Stop fooling yourselves and being dishonest about what you are doing. Get condom, have sex.
2 - No more "fun". Probably no more b/f, either. If you are still a virgin for religious reasons, then this is the right thing to do. Stop playing "how much can I get away with?".
3 - play dumb, get pregnant for real at 19. Navigate your early 20s dragging around an infant.
You are old enough to vote. Take a little responsibility. Same goes for your b/f, too.
(oh, option 4 is get married.)
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The problem here is that you were so stressed over the pre ejac. touching your skin through your panties, that the actual stress of your worry caused your period to delay. Illness will do this too. Sperm inside the vagina can live in a woman's cervical mucus or upper vagina for three to five days. If in seminal fluid outside the body they only live a few hours. Sounds like you will soon be ready for some birth control. It will take lots of the worry off of any pre ejac fluid getting anywhere near enough to impregnate. Read online first about all the different types available, the pros and cons. For some the cons outweigh the pros. and on others the pros outweigh the cons. Lots has to do with how your body responds to different hormonal treatments. Read womens comments on what side effects they suffered and if you aren't willing to live with them...then go for a non-hormonal bc. Two choices, diaphragm and the copper IUD. I used the copper IUD when married at 20 and never had to do a thing. Took it out after about 6 years and got pregnant right away. So your only chance of getting pregnant right now is if you have sexual play without protection. If you don;t have a Dr. you can go see Planned parenthood
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If 4 tests say your not pregnant then you are probably not pregnant.
Stress is the leading cause of missing or late periods. You are quite obviously stressed out over possibly being pregnant. You may not get your period this month or if you are able to relax enough it will arrive soon.
If you again miss next months period then you should see your GYN for there is something else at work here. With 4 negative home tests you can be almost 100% assured you are not pregnant.
One other thing: If you have taken any medications, especially antibiotics, steroidal or narcotic based, these will throw of you cycle. Also changes in diet and exercise will do this as well. A women's menstrual is very finely tuned, it does not take much to throw it off.
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