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my friend is in huge trouble.
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my friend, ok yeah so she sent all these pictures of her body, like her boobs, and vagina, to all these guys. and yeah i know its slutty, but ive kinda always been the type, that i give my opionon, and say its wrong, but i believe everyone can do whatever they want, & if its what they choose, then fine. but anyways, her sister saw one picture, that a guy sent her. so they got in a fight, and her sister told her mom. well now her moms taking the phone to the store or whatever, and like going to see all of her txts and everything. soo, any advice for my friend on how to get herself out of this mess?
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hahaha my friend did that too, but she didnt get in trouble by her mom. GOSH THAT WOULD SUCK! anyways if i were her this sounds really bad but..tell her to find her phone and throw it in the bathtub filled with water and let it soak and then it will be broken so then her mom will not see the pictures.i mean yeah she will get in trouble but personally that is better than her mom seeing those pics (well i think). the only bad thing would be if her mom hid her phone and she cant ever find it. so you and your friend GOOD LUCK! i hope i helped
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Simply put. She needs to figure this out for herself. You warned her that it was wrong and she still did it. Now I know you probly want to get her out of this jam but this is one of those problems that you should stay out of!
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beilive it or not i think you should leave your freind in this mess!!!Tell you why,you warned her in the beginning...you KNOW what she did was totally wrong,noone can deny that.Her mom needs to know what her daughter is doing...seriously.Her mom needs to punish her so your freind can learn from her mistake and never send random guys her body pics again.come on imagine your daughter was doing this and you found out...would you honestly listen to her freind that wants to get your daughter outta trouble!?you warned her and she didnt listen,let her pay for the consenqunces of her actions now
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If your slutty friend's phone is already in her mother's possession, then quite frankly, she's boned.
If she doesn't have it, just delete the messages.
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Well if your friend had the chance she could delete all of the texts now. It won't show up on the bill or at the store. She needs to delete anything revealing herself on the phone as well. If she doesn't have the chance to do that she needs to own up to her mother and tell her. "Mom it was a stupid thing to do and I'm really sorry..." etccc.
It really wasn't your place but if she's underage that is wrong [so i agree] and she doesn't need to be doing that.
I've done that before, [to my boyfriend not random guys] my mom found out..blahh blahh. so i deleted everything off of my photobucket account like she told me to [i thought no one else could see my pictures ..i was wrong]
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I think she should own up to her mother *before* her mother takes the phone to the store. Admit what she's done. That's the only way to keep her mother and the store clerk from seeing way too much of her.
She *is* in trouble. And she *should be*. Yes, people can do what they want. When they're 18. No, it wasn't your place to stop your friend, but what she did was wrong and all she can do is admit it to her mother and take whatever punishment her mother feels is appropriate (within reason).
Sabine
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