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trust, parties
okay so i have a real problem lying to my mom..i have no problem going behind her back and doing stuff but lying to her face is just so hard. so when she confronted me about drinking at some parties i had to just come right out and say that i did. and now, of course, she doesn't trust me, and probably won't let me go to this one girl's graduation party (i'm 15 by the way). so what can i do to make her trust me again? i already agreed to not go to any of her parties during the school year but i REALLY want to go to her graduation party. i'm trying to be good and helpful so is there anything i can do to gain her trust back you think? maybe helping around the house and staying home more weekends?
thanks for any advice!!
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you should tell her that you wesent thinking and that ALL teens drink at one point its part of growing up!
tell her that u ammited it and you wont do it again
suggest carpooling with a responcible freind that your mom knows well and trusts to go along to watch out for you. (not saying your not responcible just so that your mom will feel better)
tell her you learned your lession and tat you reasearched about how achol is bad for a teens body and what it can do to you.
*wink wink*
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hope i helped
--ashley
adults apreate it when you dont lie to them so remind your mom that do matter what "mistakes" you do you will always come to her for help!
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To gain her trust back, DON`T go to this graduation party. TRUST <b>ME.</b> It`s only a couple of parties, hundreds of more will come. Theres always next year. And just think about th eocnsequences if she finds out you went tot his party, when you already agreed not to. You will probably totally lose her trust. So just don`t go to the party like you said. And maybe you can try to make an effort to stop drinking. you don`t need to get drunk to have a good time, well at least i don`t. and if you need to drink in order for you to have a good time, that`s sad. In all honesty.
hope i helped
xo
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i like the staying home thing, thats really good. maybe have that girl come over to your house, so your mom can meet her and see that shes a good person. have your parents talk to hers. and have them make sure you dont drink. hope i helped<3
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