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Getting back to "me"
Last year, I was quite popular. I made everyone laugh, I talked to anyone and everyone, and I always had people around me. I was totally confident with my life.
Then, this year, all the sudden, I lost my group of close friends because they all got into drugs and drinking. Since I no longer have my close friends, I'm the one walking up to people desperatley trying to start a conversation. I'm the one feeling alone. I don't walk with people anymore, I'm picked last for partners in class, and I'm always feeling left out.
How do I get back to my old life?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Maybe the question is,
how do i adjust to my new life maybe?
maybe you were ment to find someone else that was lonely.
also loneliness is just a growing thing. You find out who you really are without a bunch of people around you. you find who your real friends are, and although last year must have been great, you may even become a little more friendlier, and deeper as a person. because now you dont get everything handed to you, you ahve to work for things, and now you no waht its like to be the one left out in the dark. so therefore, like i said, maybe find someone else that feels the way you do. she might need it.
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There's going to be someone whose looking for a good friend like you out there. All you gotta do is find them.
Hope I helped!
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You don't have to not be friends with people because of what they do. Just because they drink and do drugs doesnt mean you have to do it too. One of my closest friends got into drinking and I didnt talk to her for ages. Then when I really needed her someone told me "you love someone for who they are, not what they do".
Just keep being you. Someone out there will love you for you, i promise!
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