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I dont feel like living anymore
I dont feel like my life is important to anyone and that I should die. I feel dead most of the time anyway. I feel ugly and am always depressed and stressed. I need help. I want help. What can I do to help me feel better?
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Okay hun, dont do anything stupid that you'll regret. Trust me..bad idea. I was almost suicidal at one point and now I am fine. I had no doctors involved and I was fine, I mean hey, I dont cut anymore. Okay so heres what you got to do. Find a friend you can trust with anything, and talk to them and make sure they can make you laugh. Thats what I did..sept my friend was my old teacher who is 23 years old and we still hang out and we dont even talk about me being depressed. So find someone older who will understand and will keep it a secret and will ALWAYS be there for you...and relize there are so many people who love you and so many things that are worth living. think about all the stuff going on and how many people need you here on earth. <3
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Sit outside, like at a park or something and eat jolly ranchers (or whatever candy you really like) and think about everything thats worth living for such as candy, and good jokes, good music. I know it might sound silly, but really just sitting at a peaceful place with good time to just think about good times/things will really make you happier.
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hey...i dont know if what i'm about to say is going to help. maybe someone elses advice will help more but when i read your question i understood you a lot.
i have had depression for most of my life and in the past 2 years i have felt the same as you feel now. i have come to understand that life IS worth living. you just need to fight the bad times and not take your good times for granted. for a long time i lived only for the people around me. i did not want to be alive but so many people around me weren't letting me go. they didnt understand why i wanted to die, there was no reason for me to live.
but slowly i have realised that life is worth living. think of all those people out there who have cancer for example, they are fighting for their lives because they WANT to be alive. they have been so close to death that they want to live because they realise that life is a gift. they would do anything not to die. i suppose until we have been through something like that we will take life for granted.
please think about this.
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You are important to one person always, and that is Jesus. He is always there for you even if you think he isn't. Pray for help and you will receive some, I promise.
If you don't do that, then talk to your friends, parents, and a licenses counciler because they will be there to help you and will help you in anyway they can. Go to them and tell them you want help, they will give it to you.
But give prayer a chance first, because it will always help you, always.
I hope I helped and you get your help and you get better. I will pray for you.
-Ryan
If you need anything else, PLEASE IM me at my sn on AIM, Alpha0mega345. Or just drop a message in my inbox, I would be happy to help you more or just to talk to you. I'll be here to listen to if you need me.
Good luck.
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you ARE important, not only to yourself but to your family and friends. i doubt your not pretty, there is always something special about everone. if you want you can im me at fLiP FloP 0x
just in case ill give you some hotlines and websites that you can call and visit.
800-SUICIDE : 800-784-2433
Befrienders International : www.befrienders.org (international referral service for suicide prevention)
Boys Town National Hotline : 800-448-3000 (Bilingual suicide prevention hotline for boys and girls)
Yellow Ribbon Project : 303-429-3530,3531,3532 (i think all the commas are different lines) www.yellowribbon.org (helps prevent teen suicide)
Youth Crisis Hotline : 800-448-4663
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Go to a councler.. Talk to a trusted friend.. Talk to a family member.. Anything where u can talk and they will listen and try to help. ♥
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Several people feel stressed don't you talk to someone else about this?You could go to therapy or a psychiatrist or someone who is willing to always hear you out and be there for you like a best friend or a partner.Do something that motivates you like playing a typical sport,going outside,shopping,exercising,going to the movie theater,playing games,hanging out with family or friends.Is there a person you're interested in?If it's so go after the person that one person will for sure take off that depression and stress of yours.Yuor life is important death is just a terrible thing that could happen to a person.My brother's three friends died sadly they all liked their life then unexpectedly they passed away and even sadder they were planning to be somebody but now there never coming back ,death is just darkness that you can never come back from but life is the light and it you only have one so don't ever think about killing yourself and I know you don't want to die nobody does no matter who you are.It's good that you ask for help because others who do don't that takes a lot of courage!
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Before you do anything irrational, you'll need to talk to your parents, or someone you can trust. From there, I suggest a psychatrisct (sp?).
=] get well soon.
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