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I need friend help!!
I got a lot of my friends mad at me for a stupid reason (long story) and now i only have....hm....2 friends.I think. I'm really bored because I have nothing to do. I don't really care that they don't like me but it bothers me that they think I did something really "bad" when I dissagree. This is a stupid question....I need help on what I should do about my "friends" and what I could do in my spare time by myself.
Thanks!!
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You should try making some new friends. Join some local clubs or something and meet new people, make plans with them to hang out, untill the drama with your other friends subside.
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alot of that is going around now. friends always fight and stuff and im going through the same problem. juss talk to them about it, i try to find people that wont get mad at you over things like that. you dont have to be by yourself, but if you want to do stuff you can like exersize, watch tv, do advise columns! im sure you'll meet more people that you can become friends with easily.
-hope i helped
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Go confront them and tell them you need sometime alone. They'll somepletely udnerstand. FRiends always understand! lol It would really help if you also try telling that you didn't do anything "bad". If you have the right feelings, ignore them if they disagree or not be your friends anymore. They'll live and you will too. If they won't act like friends, I don't think you should even call them your 'friends'. Try talking to them. Hope my advice helps. Goodluck!
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ok...talk to all of them one by one let them think for a wile but you want to apligize even if u did it or no and hope.
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I would suggest talking to your friends about why they're upset with you. If it's something you've done, apologize for it and tell them that you don't want to let a stupid mistake on your part ruin a great friendship. A true friend, while they won't always agree with you, will respect your right to have your own opinion and beliefs and not say it's "bad".
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Try talking to them & telling them that you don't think that what you did was so bad. If they don't forgive you, I'd just give it time because they should be able to forgive you if they were your friends. In your spare time, watch movies, go shopping, listen to music, & try to make some new friends. I hope I helped & I hope everything else works out for you hun!
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Hey! Let me start out by saying I have had many similar experiences. Well all you can really do is explain to them (and keep calm) what really went on and tell them that they should trust a friend since yall used to be friends and that you dont want to be wrongly judged. If they are good people, they will stop the judgement. If not, then you really dont need people like that anyways, its bad for your aura =). As for spare time, it sounds stupid, but take up a new hobby. Write in a journal, create a website, learn to knit, take lessons of some sort. It could be time to clean and organize your room. You could write stories or poems. Design clothes, learn to cook, help out your mom some more, get a job. There are plenty of things to occupy your time. Hope I helped. If you need anything else, dont hesitate to write back!
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that 5 things:
1. we cannot change what other people think of us..
2. it's okay you know, to learn that there are people who are not fond of you, don't tell me you are fond of everyone..na'ah.
3. learn to agree to disagree. get me?
4. do nothing. let them be.
5. spare time? ' a friend in need is a friend indeed'. think about it in your spare time.
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