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.. AHH STUPID GUY FRIENDS!
(14/f) ok well.. i have this guy friend who used to be like my best friend but we havent talked in over a month and his name is steve. hes everything i ever wanted in a guy. we used to be a couple but then i broke up with him cause i thought i liked someone else more (this was in like early july) and now i dont know.. im really starting to fall for him. and i came right out and told him i still like him. and he didnt type anything back so i just said something totally random and he responded to that. but i know he heard me because later that night i said i shouldnt have said something earlier and he was like "oh was it that you still like me? because i already knew that". i dont think he likes me anymore because when he used to like me (way back in may) he used to act like he wanted to be my friend but ever since we broke up it seems like hes just being my friend cause he feels bad for me? so i wrote him and said "if you dont wanna be friends anymore dont lead me on, just come right out and say it" but he kept saying he does and stuff but i just dont know. so im working on making our friendship all good again but i just dont know its hard when i like him so much. and i dont wanna stop liking him in case he likes me too and i dont realize it. should i just come right out and ask him if there is ever gonna be a future for us and if not i need to know because i dont wanna waste my school year being stuck on you while there could be other guys.. im just so confused. sorry this is so long but i need some help and this is the only was i could describe it! muchos gracias in advance! -- christine
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Well first... the reason he probably didn't respond when you told him you liked him was that he most likely didn't expect you to say that. But anyways...I definitely think you should come right out and ask him if theres a chance of a "future" between you and him. I mean really, what do you have to loose? and if he says no, then forget about him and just stay friends. If he says yes then don't loose hope, sometiems things like that just take time. ALSO he might be kinda hesitant because of the fact that you hurt him before... but just talk to him about that issue, i'm sure he'll come around! good luck! .:.macy.:.
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HeY...No prob. this is so long, I like long ones, haha, I understand the situation good. So I think you should come right out & ask him. See if he thinks there is going to be a future relationship with the two of ya'll & tell him the reasons you wanna know(as in, I don't wanna wait forever on you). If he says he doesn't like you & stuff that's kinda messed up, he shouldn't have led you on like that....if thats the case then let him have it! haha...naw I'm just playing. Well good luck & hope it goes well! LoVe, JamiSon!!!
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well let this be a lesson 2 every1 dont dump sum1 fo sum1 else... u will regret it... but ne way... yeah str8 up tell him how u feel... & ask him how he feels about you... he might say there is a chance cuz he doesnt want u to get over him... sum guys are like that... they dont like a girl... but they enjoy the fact that sum girl likes them... & they like to brag to their friends about it... so suppose he says there is a future... u stil shouldnt be all bout him... give other guys a chance... yeah u did make a mistake in the past... but we all do... u dont need to sit around & wait fo him to be ready... but u do need to learn from ur mistake...
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Hi Christine! Thanks for writing to me. To me, it sounds like both of you need to really talk. I think you should come right out and ask him if there is a future for you both. I think if you do that then you will feel much better. If he doesn't want to talk about it then just give him space and he'll eventually come around. Don't bother him with the issue but try to talk to him at least first and then back off. Who knows? Maybe he'll end up telling you that he wants to get back with you. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal
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