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Boyfriend?
I'm a female who is 15 years old. I'm going to be a sophomore in high school starting September. My question is, I can not seem to ever find a guy that is worth my time. Don't get me wrong, I'm on pom squad, I'm not a geek or anything. I just can't seem to find a steady boyfriend. I usually date older guys but I'm trying to find someone more my age. Any ideas on how to become more approachable to guys?
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Boyfriends are unimportant. They really are. Be your friendly self and let love come to you, if you go looking for it you'll be getting desperate without realizing. Just patiently wait. In the mean time, try just being close friends with guys, friendships help so much... you seem pretty approachable, but if you dont feel like that, theres nothing wrong with a 'hi' when your meeting someone ... or whatever. good luck.. i really hope you find what your looking for
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How does being on "pom squad" prevent you from being a geek?
Pom squad sounds "geeky" to me... And uh, isnt cheerleading the same thing?
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theyre prbably to intimidated by u and 2 shy 2 b w/ u. if u start talkin and hangin out w/ different guys ur age whoknows u mite just find sum1. !!rate me!!
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I'm a geek! I used to be a little jock-ish, but things change. (cries over geekiness) Anyway, as you know, there are a lot of jerks out there. Good guys are few and far between. It's common for girls your age to date older guys because of the maturity gap. Most guys your age, and I'm sure you'll agree, are really immature. To tell you the truth, you're probably approachable enough as you are. Boyfriends are overrated, seeing as how most relationships at your age (or any age for that matter) end in heartache. Just have fun, and try not to look for a steady relationship. They're almost nonexistant at 15.
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Just be yourself!!Be friendly and smile at guys,say hi to people when you see them in the halls even if you don't know them!That way you make yourself appear very friendly and sweet and easy to talk to.Also,don't always be surrounded by a big group of your girlfriends,that can be a little intimidating to guys.If you find a guy that you're particularly interested in,drop little hints!!Don't be afraid to flirt,and let him know you're interested.If you show interest in him,and are sweet and approachable,odds are he'll show interest in you!! Best of luck!!Hope this helps you out some! ;)
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If you see a guy walking down the hall and you think he would make a good friend or maybe even a boyfriend in the future, just go up to him and introduce yourself. Always have a positive attitude because guys like that. Just be yourself and in no time, guys will start liking you and asking you out. Hope I helped :)
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Just be yourself and don't worry to much about guys. The reason you can't find a guy worth your time is that most (but not all) guys your age aren't worth your time. Just try to hang out and have fun and enjoy being 15. If a guy that you have interest in that's worth it asks you out, then cool! But try not to worry about it too much.
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Hey, geeks are still hot. Guys are attracted to all different types of girls, so the best possible thing you can do is be yourself and eventually, a guy who is attracted to your natural behaviour and personality will begin to like you. Guys will find you approachable if you are able to act normally around them and then they can see you as a friend, and perhaps, possibly more.
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