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Im in love
The girl i loved named amber says she hates me and doesnt think it would work out.But she didnt even give me a chance. (Im a guy) My friends tell me i should move on but i want to keep going til i win her love and respect. what should i do?
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You can go ahead and try and win her respect but if she don't give you a chance then whatever. She is not the right one for u. U will find her and you won't even mind amber. One day when she is hurt she will realize what dhe missed out on. U
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do your best to make her like you or try doing something nice for her and show her you're worth her time.
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okay maybe the feeling wasnt mutual but there is no reason for her to tell you that she hates you. she could just be immature and doesnt realize what kind of boyfriend she could have had. Your friends are right you should move on. you shouldn't waste your time on someone that won't even try with you because its a dead end street. Find someone better and put your heart in them. by that time she may come to her senses and see what a big mistake she made.
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From a girl:
Listen, what Amber said to you was cold, but you have to respect her and understand her reasons.Anyway, I'm willing to say you probably don't love her...finding true love takes time. Your friends are right, move on and I'm sure you'll find someone.Don't worry, many have ben in your situation!~ insanity_will_dominate
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i think you just need to move on because you shouldnt ruin your life over a girl that you have no chance with!! just move on with your life and one day you will find that special someone!!
Good Luck!!
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How would u describe her? If she dosn't see who u are then she dosn't deserve u might just be over reacting , u are probley a very nice guy and if she dosn't even see or give u a chance then she's not what u truley want , I hope this helps if it dosn't then write for more suggestions
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Well sorry but for now you are gonna have to respect her wishes. You say you want to win her over. Dont try so hard that you make her feel uncomfortable. I kno its hurts but you should jus gain her friendship back and work your way up from there. No girl likes a guy continously botherin her, that would make it worse. Jus try to be her friend and maybe sparks will fly later on. you jus have to be patient
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Well you should do something nice for her. Take her out her dinner and tell her you still love her and you don't want to lose her. My advic to you is respect her with kindness and treat her like she's really needed.
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You can't earn someones love. Thats just not the way it works. You can earn her respect, but to do that you should just move on. Don't try, she's told you straight out, and you should respect her for being so open about it. She doesn't need to give you a chance if she doesn't like you. I say you should just move on, live and learn, if someone doesn't 'like' you, then there isn't much you can do about it.
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