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Member Since: April 25, 2004
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Last Update: April 27, 2004
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The girl i loved named amber says she hates me and doesnt think it would work out.But she didnt even give me a chance. (Im a guy) My friends tell me i should move on but i want to keep going til i win her love and respect. what should i do?

-shlb801- (link)
You can't earn someones love. Thats just not the way it works. You can earn her respect, but to do that you should just move on. Don't try, she's told you straight out, and you should respect her for being so open about it. She doesn't need to give you a chance if she doesn't like you. I say you should just move on, live and learn, if someone doesn't 'like' you, then there isn't much you can do about it.


im 14, so obviously im growin up, but my dad cant seem 2 accept dat i am! he says he doesnt want boys near me, n that im still a little girl. i know he just does it coz he luvs me, but i dont want him to treat me like a kid all my life! (link)
Your first sentance is where this is all wrong.

Your fourteen, and your not grown up yet. He won't treat you like a kid all your life, but for the time that you are a kid, of course he will. Your too young to be dating anyways, and hanging around boys; I'm sure If you assure you father that they are merely 'friends' and introduce them to you in a mature matter, it will help ease through the kid to adult transition.




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