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how do i deal with studying courses that i don't want


Posted Tuesday December 4 2018, 6:46 pm

Hey , so i am a computer science major who's passionate about programming and software.However, i hate studying any other courses besides what i like. Like right now , I'm studying Discrete mathematics ,which I'm failing . A lot of rage in growing inside of me ; i just wanna throw my notebook and computer at my professor. The question is how do i deal with this situation ; i have tried studying 7-9 hours daily for this course but it's too hard for me ; it's making me feel so obnoxious. I thought of dropping out of school but my parents refused. Those courses have nothing to do with programming absolutely nothing.

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I'm in love with one of my best friends and I don't know what to do


Posted Monday December 3 2018, 5:30 pm

I have a LOT of history with this boy. We went to nursery together and then the last few years of primary school together (kind of friends) and then we went to the same rowing club.
At this time I massively fancied him and made it really clear, we went on a date but nothing really came from it. Then about 6 months later he decided he really liked me and asked me to hang out at least 5 times but I'd lost feelings so declined each offer.

Now we're in the final years of high school together and we are really close friends and I like him soo much but he just got out of a pretty bad (but brief - 2 months-ish) relationship.
He told our mutual friend that he is attracted to me (since breakup) WHAT DO I DO? I don't w...

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My twin brother and I are having a physical relationship


Posted Friday November 30 2018, 11:15 am

My brother and I are both juniors in high school, but have yet to go out on a single date. One weekend night we were home alone, watching a movie, and complaining about our situation to each other. I confessed that I've never even kissed a guy before. After I said that, we turned to each other, exchanged a look, and started kissing. Now (whenever our parents are out, obviously) we cuddle up next to each other on the sofa while watching TV and kiss and grope each other. We have not had sex because we're not sure we want to cross that line. Plus, I'm afraid of getting pregnant and having to explain to mom and dad who the father is. We both know intellectually how wrong this is, but we don't feel the wrongness of it. It feels good to finally h...

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Do you have any recommendations for an exotic Bali villa?


Posted Thursday November 29 2018, 6:58 am

Hello everyone,

I have been wanting to go to Bali for quite a while now. Naturally, I did my research and I am slightly confused.
As far as I can tell, there are two main diverging opinions.

Many see Bali as a tourist heaven worth of exploring. Others, however, have a different perspective. They claim that Bali has lost all of its charm saying that tourists are consigned to so-called tourist bubbles. Personally, I don`t mind some superficial fun but that`s not why I want to go to Bali. Which brings us to my question.
Does anyone have any good recommendations for Bali accommodation? I am looking for a blend of plain old fun with a sprinkle of adventure. The idea so far is to rent a villa overlookin...

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I didn't hang with my bff and shes mad!


Posted Wednesday November 28 2018, 4:58 pm

My best friend is super mad at me almost all the time! Today was my anniversary with my boyfriend. She and I normally hang out every Wednesday, but i want 2 spend my anniversary with my bf! But now shes mad and upset and offended! Help! What do I say or do?

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How to stay at one job for a long time?


Posted Tuesday November 27 2018, 11:30 pm

I'm 24 and so far I've had a difficult time staying at one job. In fact, the longest I've stayed at one job was a year (twice). I seem to make it around 4-9 months before something happens or I don't want to work there anymore.

For example, at my current job (at a bar) I make really good money, but constantly run into men sexually harassing me and touching me and after I was assaulted last week I no longer want to work there. I've been there for 9 months.

The job before that was in medical data entry and I also made good money there, but I hated my bosses who constantly yelled at everybody, insulted everybody, and would threaten to fire us constanty. I was there for 4 months.

Then before that I ...

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Feelings for another woman


Posted Tuesday November 27 2018, 4:49 pm

I am a 42 year old male. I have been married for 16 years. Several months ago my wife and I hit a bit of a rough patch. I began a text relationship with a younger coworker. Nothing physical ever happened between us. Long story short my wife found out about the messages. She made me stop immediately. My wife and I have moved forward from this event and have grown closer. The problem is I still think about the other woman frequently and sometimes it is a distraction with work and family. How can move on from my feelings from this woman?

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about with holding sex from a guy i just started seeing


Posted Sunday November 25 2018, 11:01 am

hi, I am in my early 20's. I am a med student and I surprisingly, should be the last type of person to ask for such an advice. But, I am asking anyway. I have never actually had vaginal sex before, and I am still a virgin. I recently started seeing this guy and last night, he fingered me..and I told him to wait and that we wouldn't have sex with out protection and he's cool with it. of course!the problem is that even though i have never had sex, i think i might have a simple yeast infection (because of my stressful life). i with held sex from him to protect him and obviously i won't have sex with him until i fully recover. but him fingering me kinda just happened. I know the chances of him getting it are slim to none, with out oral or vagi...

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I GOT A 1,000 WATT SMILE.................


Posted Sunday November 25 2018, 2:47 am

im in the running for a position, so I interviewed and I was given a tour and I met a few people and including this one particular guy who works in the department that I applied at and who happens to be very attractive, well he came up to me with such enthusiasm and was smiling from ear to ear and introduced himself and shook my hand, his face just lit up when he seen me and he even said very nice to meet you still smiling that 1000 watt smile and shook my hand again...wtf? any explanation

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ejsculate


Posted Sunday November 25 2018, 12:53 am

why can't i ejeculate when I masterbate?


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Hoarder husband


Posted Friday November 23 2018, 7:50 pm

Hi! My husband is a hoarder. The garage, shed, second outbuilding, attic, basement is full.He is piling things up outside and We got notices from the city about the "garbage" and he cleaned up a bitbut no all. We had a final notice today, we have 14 days to clean it or we go to court. I have done everything I can to clean up over 15 years but he just keeps accumulating. I am terrified of court and jail time. He gets very angry at me when I clean up. (donate, or thow out). He will pull things back out of the trash. This is killing me. We arent speaking again this evening because of it. What do I do? Go to court and say I have no say? Thanks..

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Harassed by special needs girl...


Posted Thursday November 22 2018, 3:28 am

Before I begin, I'm not judging her for having special needs! So do I!

Back when I started secondary school (being from the UK), the girl (who we'll call Amy) kept trying to be my friend. I didn't mind all too much, and just let her be. Eventually, it got to a point where just being in the same room as her got annoying; she'd randomly burst into song and get angry when I didn't sing along, randomly ask me to say words (since I have a weird accent), stuff like that. And my bullying got noticeably worse, being called a lesbian and such. So, one day, I eventually outright said to her "I don't want to be friends," in the nicest way possible. She took it well, and agreed.
For a few days.
Amy kept coming bac...

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i am 20 years old and recently had incontince


Posted Monday November 19 2018, 10:44 pm

i need your help, i recently had incontinence, and i wore depends till i ran out now i wear, wearevers they are great underwear but i great for bowel accidents, they are great for urine though, so i need to ask my parents for depends, or adult diaper brand, please help me, God bless
skyler

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What do I do? I no longer love him.


Posted Monday November 19 2018, 2:28 pm

What do I do? I'm married with two children and I no longer love my husband. We've been married for ten years and he is a soldier and is always gone. He doesn't acknowledge my feelings or needs. I want a divorce but with the financial situation, it would not be best at this time. I seek attention from other guys on the Whisper app but when it comes to the point they want to meet up I chicken out and ghost them. Can anyone give me advice?

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I feel like my nana prefers my cousins over me.


Posted Sunday November 18 2018, 3:37 pm

I am an 18 year old girl. I feel like my nana prefers my cousins over me. I recently got a new job in my local council and a few months later my cousin who is the same age as me got a job in mcdonalds. My nana posted a facebook status congratulating him for getting a job but didn't do the same for me. Am I being selfish? Everytime I see my nana I feel like she prefers my cousins than me because she spends more time with them and never praises me for anything. I just feel like she hates me

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Feeling super burnt out in college


Posted Sunday November 18 2018, 1:55 am

I'm 24/f and I've been in college for around 5 years trying to get my bachelors. I work full time so I can't always take full time classes and had to take a semester off when I moved and had to find a new job. I still have a year and a half left of undergrad.

Anyways, I'm feeling very burnt out and like my bachelors degree is a giant waste of time. I'm so extremely tired of going to school and taking class after class with seemingly no end in sight. I feel like all I'm doing is wracking up debt. I'm newly engaged to my fiance and now the thing at the forefront of my mind (he's very solid in his career and financially) is us getting a house and getting married in the next two years. I know it won't be too long before he also ...

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ILLEGALS AND A HUGE QUESTION


Posted Saturday November 17 2018, 11:43 pm

can someone explain to me how US Citizens have to have criminal background checks, homeland security checks, credit checks, fingerprinting etc just to obtain a job in the USA, yet

an illegal Mexican etc can come over here with litter and all and get a job in a snap, NO SS card, no birth certificate, no nothing...WTF is really going on....America need to wake up and stop being stupid.....

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In phlebotomy, do you have to know the tubes by which additive they have?


Posted Saturday November 17 2018, 2:09 pm


It's hard even though I keep reading over and over. I'm not retaining it. Some tubes have the same additive but different colors. There's a lot of additives for some. I even made flash cards but its not helping me. what if I get a job as a phlebotomist and a doctor starts calling out tubes, by additives? That's what my instructor says happened to her.

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My girlfriend passed away.


Posted Saturday November 17 2018, 1:14 am

My girlfriend passed away last year and I can't move on. I need suggestions? Thank you.

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Slept with friend help!


Posted Friday November 16 2018, 12:48 am

I slept with a friend last week. We are both kind of into each other. I knew I wasn't into him enough to be sleeping with him but its been a while and he assured me he wouldn't be weird about it.

So we did it and it was amazing sex but now I feel like I sort of got it out of my system and want to go back to just being friends (I know I know it sounds bad). We are part of a larger group of friends and one friend even asked me not to mess around with him unless Im serious so I don't mess up our group. Although it wasn't a wise choice I don't really regret it I just don't think it should happen again and really don't want anyone to find out about it. How to I tell him that was fun but we shouldn't do that again? P.S. it was pret...

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