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Feeling down about approaching my crush.


Posted Wednesday February 20 2019, 10:53 pm

I am a 16-year-old girl! and at my age, I have a crush of course. So today he was in a really bad mood because he was tired and had Migraine which sucks!

So he came in and put his head down and groaned and I reassured him and touched his shoulder and he raised his face and smiled and said he was okay, but then explained his migraine and tiredness. This may sound weird but I was glad that I was able to touch his shoulder because I learned that makes your crush closer to you.

I noticed also I text him about every day, and I feel like a crazy woman or something. but I was wanted to talk to him and make sure he was okay since he was not really talking to me during school.

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How do I talk to my manager


Posted Sunday February 17 2019, 12:36 pm

18/F/South africa
I started at a work 2 months ago. There are only 3 of us that work in the shop. It's me, a guy who's also 18 and then the manager and she's 27.
At first I hated the manager but through the past month I found out alot about her and that she was raped and I was able to relate to her alot. The one day at work I cried to her because I was going through personal problems. From around there I started looking up to her, sort of in a sisterly figure way.
Then the guy started working with us and she preferred him because his dad helped fix a door and lights and he's not as shy as I am so he talks more. This sucked because I wanted to be friends with her but it didn't happen and then he was working his way up to...

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my baby


Posted Saturday February 16 2019, 3:48 pm

My girlfriend has got pregnant after only like 2 month we do love each other but she saying were not ready and financial and she already has 2 kids ages 2 and 5 and had said she wants more kids just when her youngest is at school full time what should I do.. But am ready 100 percent and always wanted a child too

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My feet are huge


Posted Saturday February 16 2019, 4:28 am

So I’m about 6ft tall and I’m pretty slim, but the thing is I’m a size 13 (UK), which is really big for someone of my build and height. I people like to stop me in the streets and make their jokes or try and guess my size but I didn really care. My friends like to make a joke out of it and it’s been a recurring thing for years. Since they started, I feel as if I’m getting more and more insecure about them so now I pretty much avoid going out when unless I have to. I hate how big my feet are. I’d appreciate any advice on how to tell my friends to stop and/or how to cope with my situation, seeming as I’m stuck with these clown feet for life.

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Mixed signals? something with my crush...


Posted Friday February 15 2019, 10:03 pm

Hi, I am a 16 year old girl and i have a crush obvisly at this age. So i have liked my crush for a couple months now. I also helped him to get a girl that he liked, he asked her out she rejected him. I was screaming in joy( which is completely messed I know) anyways, recently I was talking to him and went on a silly tangent about valentine's day since it was today. SoI said to him if I had I man I would want him to give me food, he then said I have food and proceed to point at the cupcakes on the table. Also, I said that I kinda want a boyfriend and he responded with yay since I told him previously that I didn't want a boyfriend... I could be completely delusional I don't know. Also, i find myself ALWAYS texting him first....

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I messed up my friendship badly


Posted Thursday February 14 2019, 3:40 pm

So basically I got dared to tell my best friends that I liked him more than friends. So I did it then he told me he liked me back. I didn’t know what to do so I said pranked then he got really mad. He blocked my friends and I from everything possibly. I’ve been trying to make accounts so I can talk to him and reach him but he keeps on shutting me down. I feel so bad and terrible you don’t understand. I’ve been upset since this happened. I miss my best friend. How do I get him back as a friend and make things okay?

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Constipation Relief


Posted Wednesday February 13 2019, 6:07 pm

I've been dealing with this for about one month now. I'm suffering from severe constipation. I'm only pooping on the weekends. But, when I go, it is several times a day and usually a very large amount and it is very painful. I've never had these issues before. I'm 28/f.

Recently, however, my home life has become much more stressful. I'm a teacher. The kids are misbehaving more than I have ever seen any other class misbehave in five years. I think that the issue is more emotional than actually physical. On the weekends, I suppose I have more of an opportunity to relax and the muscles are less tense.

I am feeling so stuffy and full and bloated. I'm even having pregnancy dreams bc I assume that subconsciously, I...

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Met up with a Girl on a Non-Date Twice. Is she Interested?


Posted Wednesday February 13 2019, 7:33 am

Hi, I met a girl at a digital marketing seminar. We started chatting there, she is cute, smart and very sociable. I asked here if she wants to connect on Facebook, perhaps to exchange ideas. So we did.

After exchanging a few messages on FB Messenger, she asked if I want to meet for coffee, bring our laptops and exchange ideas on digital marketing. I said sure, and we did just that. We found this quite little coffee shop. A couple of hours pass, I ask if she wanted to grab a drink after? But she had to meet a friend for dinner next. I said ok, and we went our separate ways. A couple of months pass, I ask her about her website (a travel blog) and connected her to my friend, suggesting she interviews him, he happens to be an av...

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Sibling Incest (consensual, loving, between mature brother/sister)


Posted Wednesday February 13 2019, 1:37 am

I love my younger sister more than anything, but I have been incredibly attracted to her since adolescence, and I have been “in love” with her for decades. I have not acted on it. We are both divorced, after marriages and our children are adults and our parents are deceased, so we would not be hurting anyone.
She is beautiful and never long without a lover, until recently. She always makes terrible choices and gets hurt. This has ignited the smoldering desire that was never dormant but long muted. I’ve tried everything not to feel this way, but I am now obsessed with her, to the point near total distraction.
I know many people have “friends with benefits”. I feel compelled to broach this prospect with her soon, and n...

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Developed a crush on girl in December (through an odd reason). How do I bui


Posted Tuesday February 12 2019, 2:39 pm

We never really spoke to each other much beforehand but one day in December we were playing Kahoot together (I know, very random. Now, if you don’t know what Kahoot is, it’s an online quiz app that’s often used in schools. She asked me to be on her team for the Kahoot (though it was quite obviously because her close friends were absent that day). We got along well, there was some sort of spark there- I felt we had a good connection. She seemed to enjoy playing the game with me too. We got along very well but this crush on her literally came out of nowhere and has lasted a couple of months now.

I think it’s just refreshing to have a teen who’s relatively ‘normal’ and doesn’t try too hard to be edgy like most o...

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I have a crush on my bus driver and I'm too embarrassed to admit it


Posted Monday February 11 2019, 11:46 am

So, I have a crush on my bus driver! I don't usually freak out like this when I have crushes on someone, but this time, its different. I'm embarrassed and ashamed. I'm 19 years old female and he is in his mid 30s I guess. It all started last month when I sat next to him in the passenger seat and caught him staring at me a couple of times! I take his bus every weekend and get so excited when the seat next to him is unoccupied. You might think that that's fine, but the problem is that he is illiterate, doesn't speak my language, old, and is from Bangladesh. Not that I have anything against his country, but we both are totally different. Different religion, culture, you name it..... Whenever I catch myself thinking about him I cry a little! It...

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Been talking to girl for 1 month actively but something is holding me back


Posted Thursday February 7 2019, 2:18 pm

Been talking to a girl for 1.5 months,went out 2 times and etc. Anyways, im a bit scared of calling her out alone,cause of 2 reasons. First being that when i met her,a year ago,we talked for 10mins and friend of mine came to her after that and said that i have a crush and if he doesnt help me,i will kick his ass.(Which is false).She came to me and said that she is not interested in me but i started laughing as i didnt know what was going on.She realized that friend set her up and told me about it. She apologized to me and year later,on some song i posted on instagram,she reacted and we talked since then.
Second being that she texted me first only 2 times,and i texted her maybe 3-4 times after liking my text saying Good Night.
...

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Vacation or no?


Posted Monday February 4 2019, 9:03 am

Hi, I'm currently a Freshman in college. My family is about to go on a trip overseas. They've traveled several times over the last couple of years, and I haven't been able to go, because of the annoying attendance policy at my former school district. I have 3 exams coming up, and one right after we would get back from the trip. I'd be missing 2 days, and mostly quizzes that count as grades. Is it worth it for me to go? Or wiser just to stick around, chill, study and catch up on some rest (my family aren't the quietest, I'm sleep deprived as I type)? Thanks!

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Insurmountable fear of School


Posted Thursday January 31 2019, 11:17 pm

I'll try to make this as brief as possible, but I just hate school. I didn't always hate it, even when it was bad. I went to a christian school with extremely poor academics but a wonderful community for six years, then spent highschool in a competitive arts school. While I always had some kind of underlying depression and anxiety issues, highschool brought it out in full force. It was a terrible experience and I've told everyone who will listen that I will not re-live it.

I was pretty set on my decision not to go back to college because of this. I have never had a long term goal in life, the closest to one I had was to graduate high school, which I barely made. But with a dog and a girlfriend who I aim to do the best for, I ...

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Transferring from Mississippi State but where should I go?


Posted Thursday January 31 2019, 7:46 pm

I am currently a freshman at State and I’ve really got my heart set on transfering for two reasons.

1.) Money.
I’m from Tennessee and I pay out-of-state tuition at MSU. My parents pay for my college and I don’t want them paying for me to go somewhere that I’m not happy.

2.) Comfortability
State is great and all but I don’t fit into the social scene. It’s a complete party school and everyone there drinks, smokes, and parties almost every day of the week. and honestly, if you’re not greek, there’s basically no way to get involved on campus.

I’m looking for a school that will help me grow. I want classmates who want to go out and have fun but know when it’s time ...

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Has anyone used Craigslist to rent a room from someone?


Posted Thursday January 31 2019, 12:16 am


I'm going to school in a different city and want to find roommate in the area to live with for a brief time. I have been looking on craigslist and I want to know if anyone has found a roommate through them and if it worked out. I saw some postings for $550 a month all bills paid.

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How can I get low income housing? I dont feel safe in my area.


Posted Wednesday January 30 2019, 9:48 pm

Hi I'm a 25 year old woman still living with my mom. I really want to move out but I don't think I can support myself right now. I work full time as a Clinical Lab assistant and I'm currently in school. Things are starting to get really bad at home in my area. I live with my parents and I'm paying half of the bills. There's a lot of drama and threats going on with my extended family & others. I don't feel safe with people threatening to harm me. I also take uber to school/work. How can I get some kind of help?


I don't qualify for University dorm. I'm looking for housing in the city that I go to school in. Its not the same city I live in. I'd be safer if I was out of the my city. I dont know if I qualify for housing though and I think it takes a long time

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i need your help: my dad thinks that my mum is cheating


Posted Wednesday January 30 2019, 8:55 am

so lately my dad thinks that my mum is cheating on him but it aint true. If the situationwas different i would talk to him but he s never in mood for conversations he only yells us and he also gets drunk. Anyways what hould i do

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Unsure Whether to Do Recruitment for Business Frat


Posted Wednesday January 30 2019, 1:02 am

I got an email from a business frat whose info session I went to saying they selected me to join an invite-only portion of recruitment based on my interactions at coffee chats and info sessions. But, I didn't go to their chats and left the info session before the networking portion and I don't know anyone in the frat. So how did they choose me?/Should I go to the event they invited me to?

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Dad issues


Posted Tuesday January 29 2019, 10:20 pm

I’m 16 and my dad has always been my idol. My mom went on vacation for a month with my sister (12 years) and my dad misses them but he doesn’t want them to come back. He asked my mom to come a week early but my mom said I because my grandma recently died. My dad decided to extend her ticket to two extra months. He said that since she loves her family so much she doesn’t love me anymore ( which I don’t believe) and that’s why she is staying extra long. I told him that my sister will be missing a ton of school but he’s not listening. When I confronted him he said he’s just joking but when I told my mom to screenshot what he said, he said that she can go find another man to live with and love because I can’t live with you anymore. I don’t know what to do

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