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Mom complains about me to my sister is it right or wrong?
Posted Saturday July 6 2019, 10:47 pm
My sister and I were talking about our mom, My sister saying mom always agrees with her when we are in arguement if even if shes wrong and says that our mom gives her the benefit of the doubt. and complains about me to my sister and it makes my sister feel like shes in the middle between my mom and I relationship...I'm conflicted about this infomation my sister has told me...I'm starting to grow a bit of resentment towards my mother I feel absolutly horrible for feeling this way... I want to talk to her but then she will say that I always find the bad in her and her actions are justified. that I need to think postive. She is never accountable for her actions... very set in her ways. I getting to a point where I feel a gut feeling of what s...
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Suicidal Friend Kicked me out of my own room... Now what?
Posted Saturday July 6 2019, 6:12 pm
I invited my friend to my birthday party. We went to a hotel and now we are spending the night at my house and then we will go see a movie. At the hotel she started crying while we were watching a movie and I tried to comfort her and figure out what was wrong but she just walked up and went to the bathroom. I figured she just wanted to me alone. 20 minutes later I got a text from her telling me to come to the bathroom immediately so I did. She had tried to hang herself. I didn’t know what to do so I just cried and told her that life would get better. We went back to bed. In the morning we left the hotel and she was a little bit on edge. We went home and she was only on her phone. I sat next to her on the bed in my room but she told me to...
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My mother won’t let me be friends with the person that i like, what should
Posted Saturday July 6 2019, 1:43 am
So there’s this guy that i’m friends with. He lives an hour away but he’s the son of a family friend so he comes over whenever we have parties for holidays. Once, during a new year’s party at his house, we were in the basement with his friends while my parents and his parents were talking. him and his friends were playing on the xbox while me and my friend were just on our phones and talking. while we were in the basement, his parents told my mother that he does drugs and drinks alcohol underage, but they don’t try to stop him anymore. I haven’t seen him do drugs (he’s drank alcohol a lot tho) and he’s really fun to be around. i understand that drugs suck and when we talked about it, he said that he doesn’t do it a lot (i ...
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Heading down a dark road in my life.
Posted Wednesday July 3 2019, 2:07 pm
So it all starts with the ADHD I had when I was a kid, and how I grew up with it I guess. I had not the best childhood as my mom abused me and left me. I was bullied at this time and still have traumas.
I'm now 20 and it was only this year I was diagnosed with social Anxiety and a Cluster B personality Disorder, likely BPD.
I have a history of cutting myself and only this year I picked it up again. I can't move forward in life, I just can't. I have burns and cuts on my arms currently. I went to the ED (Emergency department) three times so far this year, and this was on my own accord. The first time I visited ED I felt normal, or what I perceive as normal. After being assessed I walked out. Second time was an i...
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friend group falling apart
Posted Tuesday July 2 2019, 8:06 pm
16 year old female, going into Junior year. I know it's sort of dumb to worry about the school year when Summer just started, but I figure I need to get this over with early as possible so I can stop stressing.
I'm friends with a lot of people, I tend to get around. I do, however, have a group of people considered my best/closest friends who I mostly hang out with. It's been the same people, really, since Middle School (for some, elementary school) but High School has taken its toll, I guess, because my friends have been getting into fights with each other left and right. I personally am still friends with everybody and haven't been involved with drama which means I should be good, but it's the opposite.
Becaus...
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im scared that my friend is going to replace me
Posted Tuesday July 2 2019, 2:55 pm
so im going to make this as brief as i can. my friend and i are really close. he calls me his little sister and i call him my big brother. Brother now has a gf and im scared hes going to throw me away only to be used when he wants to go on a date with her. do i tell him how i feel or keep it a secret?
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What to wear on this date
Posted Sunday June 30 2019, 2:43 am
I’m a female in highschool
A guy I’ve been talking to asked me out to go on a date. I think it will be a dinner and a movie sort of thing. I do not know what to wear. I’m afraid if I overdress or underdress it could make a bad impression. Should I go for a casual look and dress it up or a more formal one and try to dress it down?
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Im not there for bestfriend when she's hurt badly cuz i have strict parents
Posted Saturday June 29 2019, 11:25 pm
Please help me, im about to cry i dont know who to talk with i just need great advice like my bestfriend's dad died a month ago and she was a mess and i wanted to support her and be there for her but im not allowed to go out of the house so much so i couldn't be her shoulder to cry on and she doesnt have anybody else but every time she needs me and i want to go to her house something shows up and my mom doesnt let me she's lost hope in me and thinks im a fake friend only there in the good times now her boyfriend broke up with her and i was the only one that could help her she called me crying begging me to go to her house cause she hates talking on the phone and texts she just cant but i couldnt be there for her because of my strict parents...
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Wal-Mart... the personnel manger is my girlfriend
Posted Saturday June 29 2019, 5:53 pm
I want to be able to get back to work the personnel manger is my girlfriend. That's why I need a upper management there so they don't say She play favorites.how about that?
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Wal-Mart Greensburg pa mangers took me off schedule
Posted Saturday June 29 2019, 5:46 pm
Wal-Mart Greensburg pa 2 co mangers took me off schedule and said I had a job they won't talk to me theC.E.O and upper management in on their web sight.can I go to another Wal-Mart?
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My older boyfriend is treated like a teen
Posted Saturday June 29 2019, 3:02 pm
My recent boyfriend has been the best person I’ve ever dated , I have never felt so connected to someone . But we are 5 years apart. I’m turning 18 in two months but we’ve been dating for 5 months now. We’ve had our ups and downs but we really love each other. My parents are the only problem. Sadly it unfair for my boyfriend to be treated like a teen even though I am technically still one . I love him but I feel so bad that he has to be treated like a teen and have to sleep in a different bed than me when he comes over or that I can’t just have a dinner at his house cause my parents are strict in that way as my mom fell pregnant with my sister young she doesn’t want me to make the same mistake. I really love him but I see it takes a toll on him ...what should I do?
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how to get a company shut down for good ?
Posted Saturday June 29 2019, 12:35 pm
the company is Roseart in 2012 i discovered blanked figures that looked like people by them and i bought them and made celebirties out of them but last year they foolishly did away with them so i would like for them to discontinue all of their products and shut down their company for good how can you get it done ?
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Do fingering yourself affect your first period?
Posted Friday June 28 2019, 2:08 pm
Hi! I’m Amy and I’m 12 years old. I have been fingering myself about 2-3 weeks now. And yesterday I got my first period!
And I have discharge for like one month or something?
I got my first period faster than I expected!
But it was all dark brown-brown color!
Why?? Is something wrong with me!!?
I have been thinking it might be the reason it’s brown(period) because i have been fingering myself before?
And is it ok to finger yourself when this happens or at this period of time?
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An abusive and controlling father? What should I do?
Posted Friday June 28 2019, 1:57 pm
I am an only child, age 16, and I have a mother and a father. My mother is amazing but my father… is something else.
He makes my mother do anything he wants and controlls her a lot. He does the same to me. He has for years.
He wants me to be the smartest person in all my classes and wants me to do pretty much anything perfectly. If I don't or get something less than an A+ on any of my classes (whice obviously would have happened a lot) he punishes me in ways I don't want to explain.
I'm lucky that he allows me to have friends and some of them knows about this but I made them swear not to tell anyone else or do anything about it. They stay by my side and I love them for that but is it wrong not ...
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What about my gender?
Posted Friday June 28 2019, 12:19 pm
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I w...
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Feeling Used and Discarded by Daughter. What Should I do?
Posted Thursday June 27 2019, 6:42 pm
I am a 50 year old Mom and I have a 27 year old Daughter. She lives with her abusive and controlling boyfriend. I have noticed a pattern and I do not like it. During Christmas and birthdays she keeps in touch and is very warm, caring and friendly. Other times she does not text and does not want to be bothered. She can be rude. After 3 years of building this pattern I am tired of feeling used and discarded. Every Summer when there are no gifts involved she discards me and wants nothing to do with me. I am tempted to tell her that I no longer wish to exchange any Birthday or Christmas gifts with her and see if she quits visiting and all communication. This way I no if my suspicions are correct that she only uses me for Gifts. Problem is my Mo...
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Should I look for another Therapist?
Posted Thursday June 27 2019, 6:29 pm
I am 50 years of age and I have been seeing a Mental Health Therapist for 8 months now. My Therapist is only 31 years of age. They have been an excellent Therapist until recently. One day about a month ago I went in to see them and I could tell that they were upset about something. I asked them how they were doing and they burst into tears. It turns out that they have cancer. They apologized for burdening me with this and not being professional. Last week I went in for my session and I could tell that they were having a bad day. They also had to reschedule my next appointment so I asked how they are doing. Turns out they had surgery and it was not as successful as they hoped. They have to start chemotherapy. It does not bother me knowing th...
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What to do should i date or not
Posted Thursday June 27 2019, 11:00 am
Well there is this guy who really loves me we met in February 2019 and we hooked up twice in the same month he did that because it was his first time and me beacuse one and only lust . He fell in love with me after the kiss but i never did . My family is way too strict they wouldnt let me go outside alone even in morning. They'll beat me up if ill hv a boyfriend my dad is dominating and even my grandfather and so since i dont get out much. He has alwyas been that guy who wants to go out and meet people we were different in taht way. Well he loves me way too much and now i realise whenever i meet him its not a good time to me im just way too uncomfortable with him whenever i meet him end up regretting why i took efforts cause its very diff...
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Lab attire conflicting with parents belief
Posted Wednesday June 26 2019, 8:47 pm
I recently got accepted into a university and will be transferring from a community college to a university in the fall. My mom checked my syllabus and they are very strict about attire for my lab. I have to take chemistry 2 and it’s required for my major. They said that no skin whatsoever can be showing and we must wear long pants and leggings won’t work. Thing is, for my religion we wear skirts. I was thinking about wearing something under my skirt, but I don’t know what would be most appropriate. I wear leggings in the house and don’t own a pair of pants so I would have to go shopping. For anyone who’s taken these kinds of labs, would they be ok with that? Is it just necessary to have long clothing or would pants be necessary? ...
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Sexually Suffering
Posted Wednesday June 26 2019, 4:39 pm
I'm 28/f and suffering from vaginismus. For those of you who don't know what that is, here is the definition: Vaginismus is involuntary contraction of muscles around the opening of the vagina in women with no abnormalities in the genital organs. The tight muscle contraction makes sexual intercourse or any sexual activity that involves penetration painful or impossible. I was sexually abused and this developed as a result. I didn't realize it until I was about 20 and tried to have sex for the first time. When he came near me, I started shaking uncontrollably and I was pushing him away. I thought that there was a lot more factors to this. For one, it was both of our first time. He was very inexperienced in terms of anything sexual. I thought ...
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