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what should I do about this guy who makes me beyond happy?


Posted Monday September 9 2019, 2:19 am

hi! I’m 17 (turning 18 in November) and I just moved to Texas from New York I’m in July and it’s been okay, only reason I like it here is because my sisters kids are here and I love them sooo much. other than that I’d rather be back in New York. Life for me was sooo simple and one of the main reasons I want to move back is because the love of my life lives there. I’m july after I moved this guy that has been in my class for 2 years in high school confessed that he liked me and I like him back. He’s everything I ever want in a guy. he’s 18 and goes to college in Albany. I would love love love to go back to ny and visit him when we are both off from college but the main issue are my parents. They would never let me go back to ny...

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Do I get back with my ex


Posted Sunday September 8 2019, 6:58 pm

Hi there,

So I was seeing this girl for about two years however the final few months were a bit on and off so I just say two years as it’s easier. So we broke up and I still wanted her in my life so I said I’d be Friends with her as I was still madly in love with her as you can guess it was her that did the dumping. She was going through a rough patch and as always I was there on hand to help her through it she went on holiday and met this fella that she was seeing when we were off at one point. One thing led to another and they had sex but the next week she still came to my house and stayed for a week being friends but always that little bit closer than friends if you get me. But nothing sexual happened. Ended up going ...

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What do i do when i feel like my besst friend I are drifting apart?


Posted Friday September 6 2019, 7:25 am

So my best friend and I've been friends for 5 years and in those 5 years of friendship i never felt like we are drifting apart till now. There is my another friend, because whom i feel like we're drifting apart. She would compliment my best friend alot and talk to her alot and leave me out. She would agree to everything my best friend says and would talk about the time when they hung out without me. She has her best friends or that's what she says,but when we all are together, she would come and stay with us and talk to my best friend alot. She would talk about the secrets they have often too and when me and my best friend talk or laugh about something she would ask us again and again why are we laughing which annoys me and when I would ask...

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medical school


Posted Friday September 6 2019, 7:15 am

I am a high schooler and right now my goal is to become a classical musician. However, I want to become a doctor. With my low gpa and lack of knowledge is it possible to become a doctor?

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High School Friendship Advice


Posted Thursday September 5 2019, 11:21 pm


So, I'm starting a new year at high school-

and wanna be in a group and shit like the others, but it's kind of hard because it's a small school and it's as if you have to be a certain type of person
or you have to be like them to join them? Wondering what I should do to be happy and comfortable in my school cuz SHIT broooo this fucking sucks ass a bit;

but thank you for your consideration and reply advice

I don't talk like this at school though in case you were wondering if it's just my lack of social skills. feek you- but I did move from Europe a few years ago so maybe I just still feel out of place... :/

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Irrational and tyrannical insoler parents-in-law and sister-in-law


Posted Thursday September 5 2019, 6:48 pm

My marriage is now 6months old.My husband's parents and sister were pretty nice to me but I noticed that these people are completely insolent and irrational when it comes to handling any situation that they are not comfortable to talk about.On the other hand,my parents were and are so rational and considerating.There is no such thing in this world which I can't share with my parents.Its the complete opposite case in my husband's family.He and his sister do stuff which they know their parents would have not approved of and then they blatantly lie on their faces.Which,honestly,I can't.But my parents-in-law,specially my MIL is very pretentious of a person.She asked me to be totally free and frank with her,as she claimed her children are befrie...

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Being honest, and giving jokes


Posted Wednesday September 4 2019, 12:06 pm

A friend and I have been arguing for the past couple of days now. The first time this started happening over me to funny, like I’m make jokes about real dumb stuff and honest even I would make jokes about me calling myself stuff. Usually he will laugh to it. I always tell people when you get in a relationship/friendship with me I’m going to be honest. Even sometimes I would trying to tine it down how I talk to him even other people. But i does slip out from time to time. So I last argument started because i said we have “big dick energy” and I said sometimes you ack like you have “little dick energy” Thinking about now I can see how it could offend him. I told him if you have an issue come up from it tell me, I always apprecia...

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Should I stay or should I go?


Posted Tuesday September 3 2019, 12:23 am

Hi,im not sure if this is on the right category or no but here goes.
I am now a single mother of 2 children 19 and 12.
About 6 year ago my husband, my children and myself moved to a new city, all was great at first then about 2 and a half years after moving my marriage breakdown. I wanted to move back to our home town but my children wanted to stay, so we stayed, over the last 3ish years I have been living here unhappy with no support of friends. My health isn't great. I really want to move home where I have support and friends but my 19 year old still doesn't want to move back. I don't no what to do. I really don't want to leave her here, she is my everything. I'm so torn in what to do, please help

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Is it safe to go on a plane over 100 times a year?


Posted Monday September 2 2019, 12:51 pm

I’m planning on buying a house in America when I have enough money, however I still want to live in my UK home as well.

Is it logistically possible and safe for me to spend half the week in the UK, and half the week in the US?

That’s around 104 flights a year, so it will be very expensive, but I’d love to do it!

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Is it safe to masturbate this way?


Posted Sunday September 1 2019, 11:32 am

I (16 year old male) tend to masturbate in my pyjamas, rather than naked. However, I recently googled about whether other people do it this way, and I came across people that do, but they tend to put their hand down their pants and do it. I just feel the bit with the erection there, and move it until I ejaculate into the pants (I’m very squeamish so don’t really like the idea of touching my bare genitals)

I wipe the semen out of my pyjamas and wash my hands when I’m done, but I’m not 100% sure whether it’s safe to masturbate this way.

I think my mom is slightly concerned about the amount I ask for clean pyjamas though. Do you think she is aware of all this masturbation though? If not, how do I tell her?



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I've seriously embarassed my friend a THIRD time...


Posted Saturday August 31 2019, 2:39 pm

There really isn't much to it. My best friend and I (both 20,) live in a small town, she's a waitress at one of our most popular resturants. I once made a joking comment about tipping her a bible quote, to her boss, the owner (very friendly guy, talks to everyone,) and when we left she told me I can't say things like that to her boss. Obviously. I'm akward around people but I don't have a good excuse for thinking that was okay.

The second time, we were at the lake with her mom, and her mom asked her if she'd been smoking cigarettes, and she said no. I was teasing and said "don't lie," and she later, obviously embarassed, told me "you can't say stufd like that to my mom, she doesn't need to know, she just doesn...

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Struggling to find Housing


Posted Thursday August 29 2019, 10:37 pm

I am struggling to find housing for myself and my roommate. We have been staying in a hotel for nearly two months now and it’s draining our financials. We have enough money to put down a decent security deposit unless we continue staying in this hotel. We need to find a place to live as soon as possible. Emergency status even. We all have good jobs and work ourselves exhausted. Does anyone know any way to find a place to live urgently?

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My niece keeps putting her stuff on my bed !


Posted Thursday August 29 2019, 10:48 am

I am 30 years old and I still live at home with my mom because of some mental health issues I have . I share a room with my 18 year old niece. My problem is my niece keeps putting her stuff on my bed . I had to start sleeping on the couch because of this . It really made me mad when I found a plate of pizza on my bed. How do I handle this like an adult without going to my mom ? Help!

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URGENT URGENT QUESTION, THANKS


Posted Wednesday August 28 2019, 10:24 pm

Job interview is coming up and i did some research and found out the following?

the place is facing alleged verbal and emotional abuse charges ...should I cancel this interview due to the info I found out?

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my boyfriends parents mentally abuse him. how do I help? what do I do?


Posted Wednesday August 28 2019, 9:16 pm

my boyfriends parents mentally abuse him. how do I help? what do I do?
he says he is alone, that he just wants to give up.

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Sounds ridiculous but... tissue stuck in balls


Posted Wednesday August 28 2019, 8:52 am

First off, I (16M) randomly ejaculated earlier. No masturbation, no erections, nothing. I went to go and wipe my penis, and get the semen out of my pants with a tissue. However, I guess some bits of tissue, just stayed there, and they were too small to get out. Also, (you’ll see how this ties in in a minute), when I was pulling up my pants ready to wash my hands, a bit of semen dropped on the floor. I was going to wipe it up however, just as I was about to, I couldn’t hear where it landed even though I definitely felt it. So now I’m worried that I stood on it, and there’s semen in my feet

Anyway, I went to change my pants, but when I was naked, about to change them, I noticed some round white circles. Now, this defini...

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It is about me and my ex. Should I move on or should I try to get him back?


Posted Tuesday August 27 2019, 12:38 am

I miss my ex very much, I miss everything about him. I think about him every single day which makes me feel so depressed. Okay let me tell you what happened, basically he broke up with me 5 months ago but we were still friends the reason he broke up with me is because he said he wants to focus on himself and he doesn’t want a relationship. a week later after the breakup he said he wants me back. So we would do what we would do in a relationship but we weren’t together but he said he wanted me. After that he started moving weird, less attention and barely texted me. Then all of a sudden one day he tells me he wants to cut everything off, like just be friends, no kissing or whatever. So i was shocked but I understood so i was like okay. H...

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I'm 17 and pregnant


Posted Monday August 26 2019, 2:48 pm

I can't believe this is happening, but it's definitely for real. After taking two different home pregnancy tests and getting the same result, I decided to skip school last Friday to go to the doctor to find out for sure. And I am most definitely pregnant.

I told my boyfriend over the weekend. He says he'll support whatever decision I make regarding the baby. I've thought about it and decided I don't want to get an abortion. I want to have this baby and find a family to adopt him or her.

I told my parents everything over the weekend as well, including my plans to carry the child to term and to find a family willing to adopt. They were upset, as you can imagine, but support my decision.

I've told a...

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Boyfriend introduced me by wrong name


Posted Monday August 26 2019, 2:07 pm

Hi,
Yesterday at church my boyfriend of 6 months introduced me to another member of the congregation by the wrong name.

The name he used is that of another woman in the church who calls him every day to check on him
His wife passed away 2 years ago and he has some medical issues.

I am upset that he used the wrong name
and equally upset that the woman calls him every day . He apologized but i wonder if im wasting my time Thank you


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Should I cut my grandma out of my life?


Posted Sunday August 25 2019, 10:32 am

I’m gay and my grandma is very homophobic. I’ve been with my wife for five years so she’s had plenty of time to adjust. She’s always said random homophobic things but yesterday she took it too far. My wife was doing her makeup at my moms house and my grandma said “boys don’t wear makeup” I said “she’s not a boy she’s my wife” to which my grandma replied “women don’t have short hair” I so badly want to cut her out of my life and my mom is making excuses for her. I just will feel bad when she dies knowing I stopped talking to her. She sees nothing she did wrong and NEVER apologizes. Help!

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