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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Recording studio?


Posted Friday July 13 2007, 1:34 pm

Ok, all my frineds seem to think I have the perfect voice. One even said that I should go to a recording studio! I couldn't beleive it when she said that. Then I asked some other friends and they all said the same thing. I asked my step-mom if she could take me to one and she said that we would have to ask my mom to see if its ok. But what if its not ok, would all my dreams go down the toilet? What if Im able to and it doesnt turn out the way I want it too? Im scared to ask, what should I do?

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Friendship DRAMA!!!!!


Posted Friday July 13 2007, 12:16 pm

me:14/f/
BFF:14/f/
My BFF is acting like a girl player, kinnda. She will go out with any guy that asks and she does w/e they want. I mean she hasn't gotten as far as ACTUAL sex, but she has had guys finger her. She only did this cause i told her she was WAY TO YOUNG to have sex. Me and my other friend are REALLY scared that she will go all the way with a guy that she dosen't love! Plus she says that protection for sex is "over-rated and the pull out method is better". And she says that she will have sex when she wants and has stated that she probly will on her next date with her bf that is like a SENOIR!!! Shes only a freshman!Help me! i don't want her to get pregnant! Shes too young!

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my friend is in huge trouble.


Posted Friday July 13 2007, 12:44 am

15/f

my friend, ok yeah so she sent all these pictures of her body, like her boobs, and vagina, to all these guys. and yeah i know its slutty, but ive kinda always been the type, that i give my opionon, and say its wrong, but i believe everyone can do whatever they want, & if its what they choose, then fine. but anyways, her sister saw one picture, that a guy sent her. so they got in a fight, and her sister told her mom. well now her moms taking the phone to the store or whatever, and like going to see all of her txts and everything. soo, any advice for my friend on how to get herself out of this mess?

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people get sick of me~


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 11:08 pm

ok well i'm pretty good at keeping friends (when i'm in school) but anyways i don't know how to keep them interested,you know? people get bored of me fast,i hate it ! i just stop my energy for some reason after a cirtain point. how can i keep my energy up? i'm not sick of them, its nothing to do with them,its me. i just loose energy and stop being so talkative,its weird because i'm usually so much more talkative. any help? this is probably confusing.sorry.

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Best friends!


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 10:06 pm

Long story short, I used to be best friends with this guy. (he's 16, i'm 16/f) Anyway, this year stuff's been rocky and we both have been trying to get back to the friendship we used to know, it's not working, it's been about 6 months. I think, at least on my part, I can't remember how I was ever his friend 'normally', like without being so close, but that's how I need to be now. I can't expect to hang out with him all the time, and call him/him call me, etc. How can I get myself used to being okay with being just normal friends? And also..how can I treat him like a normal friend?

(If this makes no sense, what I'm trying to say is I still see him as a really good friend of mine, though he doesn't for me. he's willing to be my...

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I don't get him at all !!


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 9:09 pm

Me and this guy have been back and forth, I can't never know for sure if he likes me or not.
I told him I like him, but he never said anything back to me. But he always talks to me; always txt me; always emails me.......

We went out one night, and both got drunk.
He told me how beautiful I am, and he always loves me(yes, love is the word he used), and then he kissed me. (for really long time.....)
The next day he called and asked me what did he say the night before..........(he only remember he made up with me, but doesn't remember what he said to me!!)
Then he asked me out again for movie, but barely talked to me the whole time when we were out. I asked him why did he kiss me the first place (t...

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Futurely dating my friends crush ( 16f )


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 8:25 pm

Ok well my friend really likes this guy. Shes liked him for like two school years i think. We Anyway, I dont like him, but I have this feeling that me and him might date in the future... like soon, in a couple of months of getting to know eachother again, because we used to be friends. And like i said I dont like him but I do sometimes wonder what me and him would be like. And I dont want to lose this friend, she like him and I would never date her crush, but I wouldn't want to like him either. What should I do?? This feeling is strong, and i feel so right.

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More Guys than Girls


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 6:33 pm

I am a 14yearold girl with a bazillion guy friends. ok maybe like 10 and only 2 gal friends. Some people think i am weird but i honestly feel more comfortable around guys. These guys are not the hunky-hunky-baywatch guys they are more the nerdyish-computer-advanced classes-bandgeek guys. Now i have to tell you that i am much like them besides the computer part. Everyone else besides my friends talk about me and my gal friends and think that we are gay because we hang around guys. and that we are "nerdy girly girl virgins". I hear them talking down the halls and in the classroom and at lunch.
But now that summer has come i have mostly forgot about besides the fact the Drivers Ed. came up and i am now constaly reminded. It dr...

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Backstabber


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 4:51 pm

I hav a friend and she has always been great to me. Ok the story is that I like this guy and she did too. But then she had told me she stopped liking him so me and him were hanging out and talking on the phone and stuff. But today I found out from her sister that her and this kid were swimming together because she was trying to out-do me. She is being a jerk and I don't know why. It's making me so mad and I don't know what to do.

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downtown


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 4:48 pm

alrightt
so tomorrow im suppose to go downtown chicago
with some of my friends
and im 14
and i live like 30 or 45 min rom it?
and my mom told me i have to ask my dad if i can go
and i have been bugging them all week, well my mom
cause she gives in more then my dad
and i have a feeling he is gonna say no
and yeah im 14 blahblahblah im gonna get rapped
and i know theres gangs and stuffy like that
but really if i didnt think i wasnt gonna be safe i really wouldnt ask
and we are gonna go on a train
how can i get my parents to let me go?

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friend who isn't acting like a friend! what should i do?


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 4:11 pm

One of my friends is very rude! Now when i say rude i don't mean burp in your face, potty-mouth rude. I mean this: she never listens to me...like if i tell her a problem of mine she turns it into a joke, even though i listen to hers. She also constantly puts me down by saying "youre dumb" or "retard!". Also she leaves me when the "populars" are around even though she isn't popular! This is so annoying and really hurts my feelings! I don't know weither to leave her or what! I know that scince we are just entering highschool it gets tough but it shouldn't be this bad! You know with the whole "clique" thing but, i just don't know what to do!!!!

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my mom doesnt like my bestfriend(please help i need it


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 2:06 pm

so heres the deal, my mom doesnt like my bestfriend which by the way is really lame. she only doesnt like her cause i kinda pick up her bad attitude. but the thing is my sisters nvr listen to me and tell me mom everything they are older btw and im f/16 and my parents nvr listen to me, my bestfriend is basically the closest thing i have to family rite now, and i would pick her over anything or anyone, but my mom wont let me hangout with her until i get my attitude up and im not gonna see my bestfriend for three weeks. so i have three weeks to get my attitude, up only thing is i dnt want to get my attitude straight when she is gone cause my mom will be like see she is the problem becasue when she isnt around your fine, but my mom wont let me ...

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the rocky road


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 1:25 pm

here is the thing.
lately i've been going through a hard time.
one of my friends (whos a guy) has been there for every step of the way.
i told him not to worry about me.
but he said because he knew i wasnt alright then he worried about me.
and monday he worried about me all day.
even though he was with his crush.
and i told him to just have fun but he couldnt focus.
i sent him an IM saying call me when u see this and an hour later i guess. he came home..and then a half hour later i can came back online.
and he asked what was wrong.
and i bascially was really mean to him.
and bitched and told him f-u and he got mad at me..and then i cleaned it up with something i wr...

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i messed up with my friend again! he wont talk to me


Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 1:07 am

i asked the Q before of my friend sean and me sue and my other friend john and how i was-like-say just was to close the whole time with john and sean i think got jelous. ok now we havent really talked since and earlier i got in a fight with people so i didnt wana talk, and my away message was i dont feel like talking now. and i said hi to him and asked if he ever got his piczo back he said no.(ok in mine i leave like lotsa hints and he knows their all about him cuz duh). then i said im sorry but i dont wana talk right now and then signed out. and now im back on and all better...and hes gone he wouldnt even talk to his other friend i asked him when sean left and did he say i was mean and how i didnt mean it. and idk what to do now i cant cal...

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Soldiers


Posted Wednesday July 11 2007, 9:48 pm

I live near a city so i go into there a lot. when i do, i see soldiers sometimes, and marines. I always want to walk up to them and just give them big hugs, thank them and walk away. But i never do. Would it be weird if i walked up to them and stuck out my hand and said "thanks for everything"???

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best friend cheated with me!!!


Posted Wednesday July 11 2007, 9:01 pm

my friend and i were at his house with all my other friends but then he told them to go away so that he could dye my hair. i was really wet when i first got there so he lent me a t shirt and boxers to wear. so when they got out of the house we were alond in his room and he kinda started feeling me and put his hands on my waist. he was all over me and even tried to finger me. he was lifting up my shirt but then i was like what are you doing?? you have a girlfriend!!!! so it kinda ended there but i dont know what to do because i really like him. the thing is maybe he doesnt like me but just wants to do stuff with me. ugh what do i do??


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what should i do about him


Posted Wednesday July 11 2007, 7:30 pm

Well there's this guy who I met in the beginning of the year. Okay, well I met this guy in one of my classes. We were in the same group [we had to sit in groups of four] and we always talked. He would give me hugs in the hallways, he would wave to me, and he would be..well..you know, a friend. I developed a little crush on him. On Halloween, my friend and I went to his house and had a good times. But, he was really quite. He was usually loud and talkative. After the semester ended the teacher moved us seats. So now, I didn't sit next to him. We would see each other in the hallways and he would just wave and I would wave back. Two weeks after we moved seats he stopped talking to me. He would always stare at me when I walked passed him. Well,...

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unlimted texting


Posted Wednesday July 11 2007, 2:30 pm

if i have unlimited texting
and i send pictures from my phone
to my email
does it cost still
or is it including in the unlimited?

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Stressing out over freinds


Posted Wednesday July 11 2007, 12:22 pm

I need help big time. but thing is if I writ it down be very long, I been having problem with couple of my friends and one guy friend. and yet that i had this problem over 2 years now. and i like maybe it ok i really like talk somone over email or yahoo offline chat, part of it is me beocuse I havea a huge habit.. thanks

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not quite innocent


Posted Wednesday July 11 2007, 10:13 am

Whenever I'm with my friends or when I kiss my boyfriend once.. I get nasty comments. I don't understand it. One girl kept saying that leads to.. this! -points to her baby-

It's making me angry because I'm not stupid. She's the one who slept around and didn't use protection.

My friends went through my camera and saw a picture of me in a bra. They screamed in an over reacting way. Yelling /keep your clothes on/ and stuff. "Don't do anything stupid".. when she has done drugs and had sex numerous times. she made herself seem all superior and well, it pissed me off :)

What can I do to make them shut up? I'm older than them and they are not joking, believe me. I'm not stupid enough to make...

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