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Best friends!
Long story short, I used to be best friends with this guy. (he's 16, i'm 16/f) Anyway, this year stuff's been rocky and we both have been trying to get back to the friendship we used to know, it's not working, it's been about 6 months. I think, at least on my part, I can't remember how I was ever his friend 'normally', like without being so close, but that's how I need to be now. I can't expect to hang out with him all the time, and call him/him call me, etc. How can I get myself used to being okay with being just normal friends? And also..how can I treat him like a normal friend?
(If this makes no sense, what I'm trying to say is I still see him as a really good friend of mine, though he doesn't for me. he's willing to be my friend as long as i treat him as a 'normal' friend as he says. anyone, HELP!)
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just be yourself, and hang out. if you guys were best friends then he must like your personaility. Have fun, and just act like it was in old times. or you could try to start fresh.
Ask him what he would like to do.
Just have fun
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well just stop trying and let it come to you naturaly. its easier to forget how you were friends and focus on whats happening now
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