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How can I forget about him?
Posted Thursday February 16 2017, 2:49 am
So I pretty much want to forget about my dad he hurt me a lot and I even searched the internet for help but nothing helped me My dad was abusive and he cheated on my mom a lot. He also sexually assaulted me when I was little. Pretty much my mother had me at a young age around 15. And my 'father' was fine and all as I can recall. But when my mother left to work he would bring me with him and he would pick up a woman and bring them over to our house and well you know have sex with them. What was worse is that I had to be in the room with them when they were doing that, I remember when he did that and he turned all the lights off cuz u suppose he didn't want me to see I dont know and when he did I would cry silenty. He left me when I was 5 an...
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Question
Posted Friday December 16 2016, 2:21 pm
My fiance and I have been together for 12 years. We just had our first baby last year. But lately we have not been able to communicate our issues. So last night we got into a argument and it got so bad that he slapped the lamp that was on top of my nightstand and then it got physical. For the first time he had punched me in the side of my head while trying to hold me down... I always thought that things would change but it havent. Before he had only pushed me or slam me on the bed to "hold me down". After last night punched, I finally woke up and realized that he needs to go!! Have anyone gone through this? i should of left along time ago but i thought he would change, boy was I wrong!
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Novel Review or Personal Health
Posted Thursday December 15 2016, 7:17 am
Over the past few months, I have been friends with this guy who wound up being emotionally abusive to me. I finally managed to escape from it 3 weeks ago when we got into a fight about my Christian beliefs (being called self-centered, delusional, and an idiot in the process...), and haven't talked to him since.
He was in the middle of reviewing my novel at the time, critiquing 8 of the 10 chapters. Yesterday, he e-mailed me his critique of the last 2.
I want my novel to be the best it can be, but I'm not sure if I should read it or not. I know it's going to hurt to read, but it'll also help the story.
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Was it my fault Was this rape or just me being stupid?
Posted Saturday October 1 2016, 6:26 pm
A couple months ago I went to a party and got very drunk. A guy gave me a few Xanax pills and some lines of other drugs. We went into a hot tub and the water was too hot so I tried to get out but he pushed my head down under the water and then I blacked out. I came to and I was in a bathroom and my clothes were gone and the door was opening and then I blacked out again. I woke up and he was having sex with me. I blacked out again then woke up and I was blowing him and I tried to stop because I couldn't breathe but I blacked out again. This kept happening throughout the night where I would black out and wake up and he was having sex with me or I would be blowing him or whatever. I'm a recovering drug addict and have been speaking with my AA ...
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Nude photos of 15 year old. Is there anything my mom and I can do about this legally?
Posted Sunday September 18 2016, 9:10 pm
So the other day my 15 year old was on facebook and told us she was getting messages from this who is 18 who lives in California and we live in Georgia. My mom is raising her but my niece told us that this guy told her that if she didn't perform for him he would edit photos of her onto a naked body and post them on the internet. We went to the police and they said since he didn't do it he didn't commit a crime. I always thought this was illegal. Is there anything my mom and I can do about this legally?
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How can I expose somebody who physically and sexually abused me?
Posted Friday September 16 2016, 1:32 am
Hello, this is very hard for me to write, but I want to know once and for all if there's anything I can do to fix how I feel.
At the beginning of the year I was in an abusive relationship with somebody who sexually and physically abused me as well as stalked me and made death threats against me. I eventually had the courage to end the relationship after 4 months and filed a restraining order against him. I lost jobs over it and even had to move to a new city.
Unfortunately I had a horrible female judge who laughed in my face and said I didn't have any evidence of any of my claims even though I presented her with call logs, voicemails, and hundreds of texts from him with threats in them and admitting to the abu...
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EPO's
Posted Monday August 8 2016, 2:42 pm
If a person files an EPO against another party and the person the EPO was filed against uses another family member to call the person who filed the EPO to continue asking for permission to see their child together for visits and has this other person calling them non stop to get the answer they want is that breaking their EPO
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what just happened?
Posted Wednesday June 8 2016, 5:55 pm
I am a 28 year old female and I went out on a date with a 40 year old guy I met from the college that I go to. At first things were going great. We went out to eat and then decided to go to the river for a walk and we got there we didn't even get out there before he started kissing me and I told him he was going to fast and he stopped for a little and then a few minutes later he started touching my breasts and I told him to stop but he kept touching them. I feel so violated he'd didn't even ask me help.
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would you go or no?
Posted Sunday May 22 2016, 2:08 pm
my cousin is engaged to be married, well the bum she is marrying physically abuses her and sadly she had two kids by this bum...well the bridal shower was yesterday and I did go to that and gave a gift, the bum wasn't there, just the family.....and not his family....lmao.... I figure id go to something since I do not want to go to the wedding....I can't bear to witness an abuser marrying his foolish abusee ...what would you do? boycott the wedding and don't go.....or just go....
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Posted Saturday May 7 2016, 2:44 am
I am 21 yo guy. In the past i have come out of an abusive relationship after i got fed up. I asked many questions which were answered here and have helped me deal with the trauma. However i m trying to build my life back now, And start afresh. I just get very anxious when my ex suddenly calls up asking to patch up. We did meet one last time before i called it quits. It however turned into a bashing session where i was again blamed for not keeping promises, and she was ready to forgive me and want to be with me. I was just so angry. When i flared up she said you hav always been like this,just gettin angry on me. Ironically for the entire relationship she was constantly getting angry and even threw my gifts and threw my ring in the drains jus...
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having an abusive mother on mothers day
Posted Saturday April 30 2016, 3:20 pm
Mothers day is coming up, and as a 16 year old teenager with a severely emotionally abusive mother, i am not looking forward to it. At all. Especially since things are very high tension right now in the house. I know she's going to demand me to be there and be a "good kid" but i'm incapable of being in the same room as her without experiencing extreme depression, anxiety, and resentment. How do i survive mothers day this year?
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College Rape
Posted Friday April 29 2016, 5:11 pm
There's a guy I go to school with who used to have a crush on me and flirted with me when we passed each other in the hallway. I just found out that he raped a girl named Ashley who I'm acquainted with, but I was sworn to secrecy by my friend, Allison who told me, not to tell anyone (mainly to protect Ashley, the victim's reputation and safety). The rape has been reported and the department faculty members are aware of it. I am very close with a teacher on that faculty and would like to discuss it with her. Do you think I'd be over-stepping my bounds? I did promise Allison (my friend who told me) that I wouldn't tell anyone about it but this teacher already knows about it anyway. Are there any bases I'm not covering that I need to be aware of before I discuss this with my teacher?
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My mom physically and verbally abusive
Posted Wednesday April 20 2016, 9:40 pm
I just also wanted to mention that I am also disabled with mental health problems are there any adult services that I could call since I am receiving social security benefits?
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My boyfriend hits me because i told him about something wrong i did
Posted Tuesday April 19 2016, 11:45 am
In the start of our relationship he seemed to be perfect but then i told him about something wrong i did because i felt hidding things will be wrong. I had a boy best friend who was my boyfriend before him but i dated him for one month and was friends with him since two years. One day i was at my best friends house and we got drunk and he kissed me i told him i love my biyfriend and i cant do this. He said i am sorry for everything it is my fault such thing wont happen again. I forgave him. I told my boyfriend about everything and that time he supported me and said its okay but then later on problems started more and he started getting pissed he told me that he hates that i still talk to him and i told him he is my best friend and you wers ...
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Virgina
Posted Monday April 18 2016, 9:25 pm
Please why is my virgina too tiny that no finger can penetrate into it?
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Post break up mental torture
Posted Friday March 18 2016, 11:44 am
I am 20 yo guy... And had been in a relationship with a girl for nearly 14 months. I really loved her a lot and it was a dream, Unfortunately shortlived. Things began souring within the 2nd month itself.Here is how it went
2nd month-She failed in her exams. I called & calmed her down.i happened to say i ll be there for u no matter wat the result. She lost it and did not talk to me fr 2 days.i somehow convinced her i was sorry & i did nt mean it
3rd month-she broke up because i said that if we were ever to break up i ll always keep her in my heart. She broke up saying i din say i ll always love her.again i begged n convinced her.
4th n 5th month had a break up again over something trivial
6th month she go...
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I'm being blackmailed
Posted Wednesday February 10 2016, 5:37 am
I'm being blackmailed and I got scared so I reported the girl and deleted Kik what should I do she threatened to post it on Ellen show
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I want to break up with my Clingy Girlfriend
Posted Friday February 5 2016, 11:28 pm
I m from india.. And 20 years old in IT field of engineering..I was in a relationship fr nearly 14 months but i m tired of my relationship becauae my gf constantly picks fights and i have to make it up everytime. I am tired and want to break up..i tried but she has got way too paranoid and hystetical..totally insane..i do not know how to deal with this..please advice needed desperately
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Posted Saturday January 9 2016, 10:04 pm
I am married but my husband is impotent then i met a guy who was same of my age and we become a gf and bf or friends then we get into the point that we have sex thing and after that i didnt know that he was capturing what we doing nude photos and one time he ask me to come see him and i resist and what he did he blow out and send to my husband emails that me and him having sex and even sent to my friends inbox facebook telling on the nude pics that inam a whore because i did not meet him.so what should i do?
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18 yr-old still get abused by parents
Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 1:32 pm
I'm 18 from a Southeast Asian country where all sort of abuse is common. My parents (real) still abuse me. Earlier my mother slapped my more than 10 times. I have a red mark on my left face. She slammed me on the table then drag me hair. Of course as an 18 who would fight to their rights, I talked back to her. I told her, "is that what you can do? kill me." so see continued so smash my face on the couch. I continued talking back to her like: I'm 18 it's my right not to get physically abused. i even told her that it would be ok if she'd only abuse me verbally because it would never hurt me. I started yelling at her when my back hurt a lot. I have a problem with my vertebral disk so it's dangerous if my spine will be hit.
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