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Escaping the friend zone
Posted Saturday February 27 2021, 9:32 pm
I’ve developed really strong feelings for one of my friends, but it’s hard because he doesn’t see me in the same way. I met him a year ago through a Bible study group at my university. We got to know each other really well because he gives me rides to church. To start with, I had a little puppy crush on him, but I pushed it aside to keep from getting hurt. Last semester, we started becoming pretty close friends and my feelings developed even more. Unfortunately, I found out he likes another girl from our group. She politely turned him down, but they still remain friends and he still likes her. Also, last semester another girl joined our Bible study and me and her have gotten really close. Her and my crush went to high school together ...
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New Medication With Sexual Side Effects.
Posted Wednesday February 24 2021, 9:40 pm
I recently started a new medication which is said to have "normal" sexual side-effects with reaching climax. I haven't had partner sex since COVID and have resulted to masturbation like a lot of people. I'm always relaxed and usually have the same bed time routine etc.
However, the last few times I did there wasn't ejaculation and it took awhile longer to feel anything rather than usual quickness. In fact, my hand cramped up and that was the end of that. I'm just a tad freaked out that when I have intercourse again that there will be an issue.
I'm not looking for tips but rather how to talk to my doctor (a female whom I trust) about it. Self-pleasure is taboo and awkward to talk with female. I'm hipo...
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Beginning Meditation
Posted Wednesday February 24 2021, 1:55 am
I've had several really cool, deep experiences in meditation, yet I find I don't do it very often and can't force myself to do it under any circumstances. I want meditation to be a bigger part of my life, but there's this real part of my brain that feels...pained by it? Even when I think about it, something in my mind is like "NO." Does anyone know what this is or could be? Is it a sign that I shouldn't meditate, or is it something that can be overcome?
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Deep Longing for Monastic Life
Posted Wednesday February 24 2021, 1:50 am
Since I was 17 I've once in a while felt the overwhelming urge, deep in my soul, to become a nun or to live some sort of quiet, monastic life, shielded from society with time to focus on spirituality in an inner sense.
The trouble is that these visions feel detached from who I am the rest of the time? Like, when they go away, then I just kind of feel like I have to focus on school and get on with my life.
I'd like to think the visions and feeling of longing goes away just because my circumstances are kind of shitty and my life isn't all that great yet. I'm wondering if I have to get my bearings in the normal real world first and kind of build up a sense of who I am, and then maybe if I'm able to make a really...
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Tips and Support for Weaning off a Antipsychotic Medication
Posted Wednesday February 24 2021, 12:47 am
Hi,
I'm on an antipsychotic and have been medicated against my will for 6 and a half years. I have had severe psychosis in the past but cannot accept the extremely degrading, low-quality life of gaining more weight every month despite healthy living, and not being able to feel happiness despite having great circumstances, that medication creates for me. It also causes slower cognitive functions. I used to be highly creative, and brilliant, and this is now very difficult to access. I've felt like I've been forced to live the very most poisonous thing I could ever imagine for myself, personally. Maybe people without such a need for emotional depth can be comfortable enough without real emotions. I can't. I feel like the me...
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Attempting to make a friend by asking to draw them
Posted Monday February 22 2021, 8:14 pm
I’m still in high school and super awkward approaching people. I have no problem having a conversation I just get SUPER nervous trying to approach them. I wanna befriend this person I’ve not really talked to, they sit by themselves during lunch. I’ve went up to talk to them before but got nervous and ended up ranting about something stupid. I wanna go up to them, and im too Nervous and I’m wondering if asking to draw them will Help me make friends with them. Thanks
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Boyfriend and his sister are too close for comfort
Posted Sunday February 21 2021, 11:40 pm
I’m 26 years old, my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for 2 years, recently we decided to make the big step of moving in together, he told me that his sister would move in too,she’s 17 about to be 18. At first I was fine with It bc in the other house they lived in before she was always in her room or she’d be with her dad who lives with his girlfriend. I also didn’t take the time to really think It through, i was just ready to get out of my toxic stepdads house. I’ve always known that my boyfriend and his sister are close, but I didn’t realize HOW close until I started living with them. I have noticed that they go into the bathroom with each other when one another showers or pees/poops. Private parts are covered when they...
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Is it bad that I feel really betrayed?
Posted Saturday February 20 2021, 12:34 am
Back in October of 2019, I was going through a pretty difficult time- my uncle had a wedding coming up and I'd just graduated secondary school (I'm in the UK) and moved into sixth form, which was pretty overwhelming initially, because there was a lot going on at once. I made a new online friend around this time and I really got along well with her and it was just so nice because I have always struggled with friendships and making friends before because hardly anyone took me seriously and people tended to just view me as a joke rather than an actual person- they used to mock me all the time thinking I wouldn't understand and used to make fun of me for having autism- so having this online friendship just felt really special, especially becaus...
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Disrespecting
Posted Friday February 19 2021, 7:35 pm
Is it ok for my boyfriend of 4 years to call me a fucken bitch I know it’s not all right but what should I do.
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How to open up to my parents about bullying that went on?
Posted Friday February 19 2021, 7:32 pm
I'm a 17 year old guy and this all happened 2-4 years ago (so when I was between the ages of 13-15) but recently it's been back on my mind for some reason, and I never opened up to my parents about it at the time and I'm unsure how to address it because if I bring it up now, they might get annoyed by the fact that I didn't bring it up to them at the time. The reason I didn't bring it up at the time though is because one of the people who was bullying me was formerly my best friend so my parents knew his family well, and so I thought they wouldn't believe me. But recently, it's been on my mind more again (because I've had a falling-out with another falling out with a friend recently- don't worry, nothing malicious went on there, she recently...
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how to get vevo 70s on pluto tv to air a video you want ?
Posted Friday February 19 2021, 5:36 pm
recently i have a pluto app on my tv and it picked up vevo andadded it on their music menu and i saw they had 70s 80s 90s and 2k i was hoping they would air a Neil Diamond video on their 70s channel i waited and waited but they still won't do it howcan i get them to ?
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My overprotective mother is standing in my way
Posted Monday February 15 2021, 2:59 am
Hi. I am 22/F. I've been in an abusive relationship for 3 years of which I have a 2y old daughter of whom I have full custody. I broke up with my ex a month ago. I moved back to my mother, but I've started talking to my best friend(also my ex's best friend) and we just clicked. It's difficult to live with my mother because I am not used to it seeing that I lived with my ex for so long. And we also get along better if we don't see each other often. So I want to move in with him, but how do I tell my mom I am moving in with my ex's friend?
My mom is a difficult person and gets offended easily. I am scared to tell her because I do not want to disappoint her, but I really want to move. Please help?
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Career and transferring university
Posted Saturday February 13 2021, 3:05 pm
I am a 19 years old girl studying Computer Science at an average university in a small country. Education has always been a priority for me. I really want to become a great professional and I am happy and ready to do a lot for that. I know that I should work hard, do my university homework properly, do more than just the homework, do internships, be active, volunteer, and so on. I know that it is also about the little things. it's about how I spend my day, about whether I have enough will-power to solve that one problem, read that one page, learn those 10 new English words every day before I go to sleep. Those little things will add up in the end, they will become big after a year and that's how I will be different from an average professio...
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unsupportive friends
Posted Sunday February 7 2021, 3:28 pm
Gosh, being bi is so confusing and it tears me apart thinking about it, my friends, a lot of them are homophobic. It sucks to know that even if I ever gather up the courage to come out, I’ll be alone. I don’t want to be involved w/homophobic people because I’m literally bi and also, i have a moral compass. But I’m too scared to be alone without them. Especially hazel, she’s the closest to me but because of “her religion” (in her words) she’s one of those “I dOn’T aGrEe wItH thE lIfeStylE” but it’s so complicated. Is it just religion? Is that even a justifiable reason? But it fricking sucks knowing my closest friends of 4 yrs would leave me just because I like girls (and boys).... I guess in the end, my question is as simple as, what should I do?
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my mom told me something last night and I can’t get it out of my head
Posted Friday January 29 2021, 2:07 pm
hey! I am a 12 year old girl. Last night my mom and I were talking about stuff and the conversation made it’s way over to s*x. she said a bunch of things and I found out that my parents still have s*x.
I’m honestly not sure WHY I’m so freaked out about this, but it makes me really uncomfortable to think that they still do it. I didn’t really know that people do it for joy, and to show love to the other spouse, I just thought that god made it to make a baby. Once you have that baby, it was done and done. Haha I was wrong i guess.
So I guess my dad uses a condom or whatever that is, and that freaks me out. Just thinking ab it freaks me out to be honest.
I cried myself to sleep last nigh...
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Can I get unemployment benefits if I quit because hours reduced & hostility
Posted Thursday January 28 2021, 8:03 am
I quit my job because my hours were reduced and the environment was extremely hostile. When I called in to apply for benefits, they told me that I was eligible because my hours were reduced. My employer responded back with lies that got me disqualified. I filed an appeal.
I feel like I am qualified because I would work my butt off only to be sent home after 30 minutes, wasting my gas. My clients loved me working for them, but my supervisor would create drama, lie and send me home. It started affecting me emotionally and I already have anxiety so I quit.
The supervisor would also tell my clients that I’m on drugs, I will steal from them and that she didn’t like African Americans.
She also told the c...
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RV and mobile home living - how does it work?
Posted Wednesday January 27 2021, 7:36 pm
I'm thinking about buying my brother an RV to live in. He is struggling with some issues and i'm managing his money. Rather than paying rent I thought buying him an RV would be better. Is it difficult to find plumbing hook ups? Is it hard to find a place to connect? I'm trying to figure this out by myself and I just don't know how to go about it.
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My friend moving!
Posted Monday January 25 2021, 8:57 pm
So my best friend is moving to a new house and it's not optional, I really need some advice because there are only two house options that she can choose from in our town and she doesn´t want to move to one of the houses that she can choose from! Of the other house she likes cancels, she´ll have to move to a house beside a barn. The poor girl is traumatized and I really need some help! I need this advice before February 1st and I also need this because if she moves, I´ll lose MY only best friend! I NEED this advice for her! Please help!
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The girl I like is awful at texting (and more about our troubles)
Posted Monday January 11 2021, 11:44 am
(there is a backstory to the long question read at your own risk)
Okay hello! So there is this girl that I have a crush on and I have been slowly moving on since she does not like me back. She is the first person that I have ever told that I have a crush on. Usually, I keep it to myself. She never outright said she doesn't like me like that but when I told her she said it was brave for me to tell her and that was it. I'm a lot more candid with her than I have ever been with my past crushes and we are really good friends. The only thing is though that we don't see each other in class anymore because of COVID and that was mainly how we hung out. So now I have to rely on texting and let me tell you she is AWFUL at texting. She t...
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p*ssy fingring in cucumber
Posted Tuesday January 5 2021, 2:17 pm
im 15 years old girl i use cucumber in my pussy and they have bleeding but my pussy shape is normal now..
so i lost my vagina that mean
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