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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Why do i always get hurt?


Posted Saturday December 12 2015, 8:42 am

I feel like i always get hurt in the end.. I have so much to give but i dont recive same love.. I feel like people just use me thay need me and then they forget about me.. I am A student so lots of people are there on test and those stuff but never to actually be there for me.. I have 2 best friends but i dont know if i can still cal them that.. Actually what is best friend..? I dont know and i may never know.. Because people always change and act like soem things never happend and they forget so many thing that i have done for them.. But they never return taht favor or simply love.. I feel liek im good person( i hope its not wird to say that ). The world is so cruel. I am trying to help everybody becaus im liek why not it would mean someth...

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HELP I NEED SOME ADVICE ON FRIENDS


Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 3:03 pm

I'll use fake names
(My friend)- Barbie
(Her crush)- Adam


Ok so my best friend "Barbie" has a crush and i fully support her having a crush on him. She likes this guy named "Adam" and i think he likes her too. Well the bad thing is that he lives on my street and her parents say she is not allowed to date yet. Barbie lives 15 minutes away by walking. The first time she went to his house was when she told her mom that she was going to my house to do a project. She actually just came to go to his house. I was little hurt that she used me. So she went and she had her first kiss yay for her. For a few weeks i would let her come over but she would always go to his house instead of spendin...

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Friend Trouble


Posted Sunday November 29 2015, 4:13 pm

Hi. I'm having some friend trouble. I am 13 and a girl. My best friend Kelsey does not seem to be trying to stay in this friendship. She doesn't even talk to me at school and she ditches me for another girl. My good friend Veronica and her best friend Isabella have been through the same thing with Kelsey. She gets very close and then completely ditches. She has been my best friend for 9 years and I love her, but he doesn't seem to want to be best friends anymore. I have said some bad things about her to Veronica and Isabella which I regret, but I still meant them. Whenever I get angry or upset about our relationship to her she apologises and gives the excuse of her anxiety and OCD. I have both of these too, so I don't understand why this is...

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Do I, or do I not forgive?


Posted Monday November 23 2015, 4:33 pm

I have a friend group of 7 girls including myself. 2 of the girls have rudely confronted me about my "lack of motivation" to go to school, my rare use of marijuana, and my "overuse" of alcohol. They all have drank many times before also, so I am not the only one. They're claiming that I am a bad influence on them and that I'm ruining their reputation with mine (I'm known as the partier of my grade/the girl who misses a lot of school). They've disregarded me telling them that I miss so many days of school because I have major depressive disorder and in the past month 3 people I was close to have died. I also have ADHD and I hate taking adderall for it, and I have to take adderall whenever I go to school. I barely ever smo...

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My best friend and my new boyfriend don't like eachother?


Posted Monday November 23 2015, 2:20 pm

First off, I'm 21 and female.
I just started dating a new guy after breaking off an engagement a year ago, taking 7 months to just get back to being myself, and going on several dates with men that led to nowhere.

I really like this guy and I've already spent a lot of time with him. He's funny, smooth, college educated charismatic, and has good life goals. I'm also very attracted to him (more so than with previous dates) which is a big deal for me because I don't find myself attracted to most men I meet.

However, my best friend doesn't approve of him. She doesn't think his sense of humor is funny and she doesn't trust him at all. He goes to her University and she looked up his name in the student direc...

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I may be falling for a friendly face


Posted Sunday November 22 2015, 8:54 am

Hey guys, 18, bi


I recently began attending university. New people, new atmosphere and all that good stuff. Among the people I've met, there is one girl who has caught my attention. She's beautiful, yes, but more than that. She's creative, funny, intelligent, witty, sarcastic, full of goals and very determined. Every time we talk, my stomach gets butterflies and I feel like it's just us even when we're surrounded (let the cliches begin). Anyhow, she's been messaging me out of university to talk about the most random things ever, (TV shows, her favorite movies, etc.) and I feel like sometimes she tends to cross the line of friendly. The other day she was having a tough time and said, "I was having a bad day and ne...

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totally need help


Posted Wednesday November 18 2015, 8:19 pm

I have a friend who sits at our table in middle school but she takes my friend away and I get pissed and now I barely hang out with her I found out a day ago that the friend thinks that my enemy is mad at her and she takes to much time with my friends and I tell her that my enemy isn't mad at her but she says that she is mad at her and I think that she just wants to take away my friends I really need to knw wat to do please i need help or else i could even strangle her what should i do

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aint nobody got time for this, i need some help. thanks


Posted Monday November 16 2015, 11:30 pm

My ex crush keeps smirking at me ... like this morning, he smirked at me and gave me a respectable head nod as I was headed to my office... why????

i no longer like him because I found out he has a fiancée and has been engaged for 3yrs..he told me he was single..he lied bluntly to my face.....I stopped all the chit chats and the walks etc....I totally backed off. he knows I cant have him and he cant have me.....and if he was to mess with me he'd be cheating.....so I was thinkin him smirkin and staring at me aint nothing good....I think he has something up his sleeve...and it aint nothing good...his behavior is odd, im thinkin he may try and rape me....cuz the way he has been actin is very odd........what do u all think any advice? thanks

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For someone Special


Posted Monday November 16 2015, 8:37 pm

Could we just have a moment and give thanks, and show our appreciation to Dragonflymagic for always stopping just to answer our questions. This thread would be dedicated just for her. So come on and say your thank you's! :D

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Am I third wheel? :(


Posted Friday November 13 2015, 4:32 pm

Hi... First of all thank you soo much you actually helped me a lo last time so i decided to try again. So i have 2 of my "bestfriends" One is K other is C.I thougth im better with K and C then they are with each other and i think that i was wrong now (all my other friends said that also it was obvios)So we had a schooltrip and there K and C were together all the time they would just disssapear or something.And at one time They were 3 m infront of me and i just called them and said to C to give me my things(they were in her bag) and I just left.So then later they asked me if i was mad so they said that i was avoiding them(how was i avoiding you if you were walking 3 m infront of me?)And i said everything is okay..So then we were a...

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arguments


Posted Wednesday November 11 2015, 10:09 pm

I have never had a real argument with my best friend, and I've been friends with her for more than 12 years. People say that if you don't argue with your best friend, it means you don't have a great relationship. Is that true?
Oh, and to clarify, by "real" argument I mean about anything important. We mostly only argue about silly things like the price of cheese or who will pick the game(neither of us ever wants to choose...its always like "you pick" "No you pick")
Anyways, yeah, does that mean that we aren't actually that great of friends? where did that advice come from anyways?

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Unexpected Death of Friend's Grandfather


Posted Wednesday November 4 2015, 11:06 pm

This past weekend I was on a school trip with my best friend.
One night at dinner, she was sitting across from me when she received a text. I noticed that it was really long and made a joke about it, then went back to my food.
A couple moments later, she was sitting beside me, hugging me, with her head on my shoulder, and holding out her phone.
I read the text. It turned out her grandfather had just died of a heart attack.
This is in the past now, but I am just curious, what would have been the best thing to do?

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truth or dare


Posted Thursday October 29 2015, 8:20 pm

what are good dares?

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Cancer, friendship, and sex


Posted Friday October 23 2015, 2:39 pm

One of my best friends has metastatic breast cancer. It's starting to progress pretty quickly at this point, although she still has some really good days. So, here's my question to you all...

We've always been attracted to each other. However, because her gf (who is actually an ex at this point...its complicated) and I are good friends and we're adults, we've never, ever acted on it. Talked about it, but never done anything. If we'd met before she met my friend, we'd be together, for sure. But she and the gf don't have sex, ever, and haven't for a very, very long time. She says the gf is a really, really bad lover. But she does want to have one night of great, passionate sex before the cancer takes away her ability to enj...

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pragnancy


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 7:58 am

Due to kiss pragnancy happen



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Friendship drama


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 2:14 am

My group is two people who I'm really close with. I'm going to call my friends M and B. So me and M have sleepovers just the two of us, and M and B have sleepovers just the two of them. Recently B realized that we have never hung out/ had a sleepover just the two of us. So we had a sleepover and when M found out today about she got really pissed at us and hasn't talked to us since....

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This girl is alway appearing in my dreams?


Posted Monday October 19 2015, 5:29 pm

So I have this friend let's call her Natalie,we've been friends since kindergarten and let's just say I was never the best friend she could ever have growing up but I've changed and matured as a person, when we were an elementary school I wasn't the best at keeping secrets but now I learned my lesson and keep everyone's secrets. So basically me, Natalie and this girl were friends, Natalie and the other girl claimed to be "sisters" I was the third wheel with them and tbh the only reason why Natalie and I were still friends were because we've known each other for a long time, it was a new school (high school) and our parents are close. So summer of grade 10 Natalie had a crush on this guy, but the guy had a crush on my other friend....

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Friend is always with boyfriend?


Posted Sunday October 18 2015, 7:09 pm

So my friend got a boyfriend about almost a year ago and he's her first boyfriend. I've never had a boyfriend but I've had friends who've had boyfriends in the past and they've never acted like she does, I know all people are different but she's over the top. So last year before she got her boyfriend we used to hangout outside of school, went to the amusement park, movies etc. Then when he came along we all did the same things just with him there, as their relationship began to become longer they would basically be joined at the hip with each other, and don't even bother to invite anyone else out with them anymore. Last summer she basically blew me off the whole time to hangout with him, no exaggeration he was at her house everyday, his fam...

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MY FRIEND KEEPS ON LYING?


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 9:06 am

Hi! I need advise. My friend keeps on lying for some reason and it is SO obvious sometimes. Like the other day I told her I got a new Tablet, she then told me she has one too(last time I asked she said she only has a phone). A week later she says her father bought for her a Tablet and that I am not the only one with a Tablet between out group of friends.
There was also a day she showed us pictures of her 'boyfriend' on her phone, the pictures were clearly taken from a magazine. All my friends knew but they didn't tell her they knew. I told her and she denied it.
She also sometimes tells us how her mother abuses her. Other days she tells us how 'sweet' her mother is. One day she hates her father the next day she really loves hi...

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i dont understand?


Posted Tuesday October 13 2015, 10:08 am

so basically a friend told me that there were people that talks behind my back and those people who said mean stuff about me, 1) i dont even know them, 2) we barely talk so they dont know who am i!!!!

what did i do wrong? what am i suppose to do now?
i was going to just ignore them but i feel sad because i didnt even do anything wrong and get hated on? thats just unreasonable man.

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