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Why do i always get hurt?
I feel like i always get hurt in the end.. I have so much to give but i dont recive same love.. I feel like people just use me thay need me and then they forget about me.. I am A student so lots of people are there on test and those stuff but never to actually be there for me.. I have 2 best friends but i dont know if i can still cal them that.. Actually what is best friend..? I dont know and i may never know.. Because people always change and act like soem things never happend and they forget so many thing that i have done for them.. But they never return taht favor or simply love.. I feel liek im good person( i hope its not wird to say that ). The world is so cruel. I am trying to help everybody becaus im liek why not it would mean something to them but they never remember taht how many time i have hleped them.. And for friends i have they are all fake.. They change their personality when tjey're with different people.. and i feel like im the only one that sees that.. And them how much i study,put effort in something on the other side someone who hasnt studyed just going through has better life that me and better future.. How that?
I just look at all small girls trying to act older putting tons and tons of make up fake nails and all those thing.. And in year 12/14 you already had 2 boyfriends taht you both loves so much.. Well good for you while i havent had one boyfriend in m life.. Im just sick of everything right now... -.-
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First of all, i can barely understand what your exactly saying or asking because your sentences are so broken or your english, but i DO wanna let you know that you are more mature for knowing and seeing what these other people your own age are doing and knowing that its wrong and fake.
Next, you have to stop helping people if your expecting something in return. In the adult world, your friends can tell you all about the things their going thru and that they "really need someone right now" or whatever but you have to remember that you can only help someone to a certain degree and then THEY have to take it from there and take care of their own business. You have your own life to live and your own things to worry about, so dont take on other peoples problems emotionally and let it stress you out.
At the end of the day, what their going thru and their weight to burden and not yours so let them deal with their own problems. All you can do is tell them that your "here for them if they need to talk" but you need to take a step back and not go out of your way for people who wouldnt do the same for you.
Also dont offer what you cant give to people. It doesnt matter how long youve been friends with someone, dont help someone who you KNOW wouldnt appreciate it.
I cant tell your getting sick and tired of not being appreciated for what you do for people so lets start small. When you do something for people, if they dont even say thank you, SAY TO THEM "you welcome?" and stare at them and smile. REMIND them that when you do ANYTHING for them, that they need to say thank you.
This is a way to sort of remind them that they need to show gratefulness towards people that help them not just you. If they try to say anything to you about never having said thank you to THEM about something they did for YOU then say back "well you know what, i AM very thankful that you helped me with that, i just never got the chance to say it" then leave it at that.
This lets people know that you EXPECT to be thanked for things you do to help them and that you will NOT be taken advantage of and you demand respect from the people around you. Just give it a try and see how differently people start treating you. Also remember to say it back to people even if its for simple things. Look them in the eyes when you say it so that they SEE that your that your serious.
Dont worry about those fake ass people at school, usually people like that deep down arent really secure with themselves and have to put on this whole big mask to try to make themselves feel better about the fact that they still dont really KNOW themselves yet and may not be comfortable in their own skin.
good luck and just give this a try, you may really start to see a change. ; )
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