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Doubting my decision to move out of state
Posted Thursday December 9 2021, 9:20 pm
My lease is ending soon and my plan was to move out of state with my sister. But I’ve tried to contact her a couple of time to talk to her more about moving there and visiting soon but haven’t been able to talk to her. . Yesterday, she said she couldn’t talk because she was working and said she’s off tomorrow night if I want to talk. But when I called she didn’t answer. I probably talk to her about moving there a one or two ago and she was completely open to it. But, she’s dating someone new and he has a house and she was like I might just move in with him and just give you my house to you. At the time, I didn’t question it until my therapist reminded me the reason I was moving out of state was to have more support. That’s ...
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How does one deal with living with a messed up illness?
Posted Monday December 6 2021, 3:57 pm
How does one deal with an illness that is so depressing, that you'd rather be dead than live with this shit?
My thing isn't gonna kill me, but, I may end up killing myself because of it. A year or 2 ago, I was planning on it, I even had a bridge picked out to jump off of. Its fucked up, I don't want to be in that mental state again. It could cost me my life. Now things are better, (location and financially) but now that this fucked up disease reared its ugly head again, after it was gone for a while, Those ugly, destructive thoughts are coming back. Back then, I didn't do it because it would crush my mom if I killed myself. But my mom is dead now, so I dunno, I'm kinda scared of what I might do to myself if this disease kee...
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Emergency Dental Issue before Road Trip! Help?
Posted Monday December 6 2021, 11:44 am
I’ll try to be as brief as possible, but recently I’ve been having pain on the left side of my mouth when chewing, and I made an appointment with the dentist about it. I had been told before that a tooth on the bottom left in the back was in a bad shape, I think it was that the filling for it was probably going to eventually break or something. I’m in graduate school and really short on money so I had to put that off for now. When I saw the dentist, he looked at my teeth for less than a minute and said I would need root canal and a crown. He said the root canal alone would cost $800, and my insurance (I’m currently on Medicaid) wouldn’t cover either procedure. I had no idea what I was going to do, and leaving me with several unans...
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Doubting everything... What should I do now?
Posted Monday December 6 2021, 10:44 am
Hello..
I'm 32 years old, in a relationship for 1 year and almost half..
i am a person who is so jealous and doubts everything, not just in relationships also in life..
I question everything, search for reasons till i get satisfied.
I go through my BF accounts which he doesn't know..he says if you will do it do it infront of me, and honestly till now i couldn't find anything that triggers my thoughts but i keep doing it anyways, i know i should stop or at least try to fix myself.
But..1 week ago when i was checking again i found that he was flirting with this lady that they work together.. ( he's a head chef and the lady is a Pastry chef ).
That he wants to see her and he won't go to the venue if s...
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I think I upset my boyfriend and want advice on what to do
Posted Sunday December 5 2021, 6:59 pm
I'm a 17 year old girl and I was wondering, does anyone have any advice on what to do when you make a mistake with your boyfriend? I explained what happened underneath if anyone has the time.
Yesterday, I messages my boyfriend to hang out on a game called VR chat. He said yes, and when I got there he was with his cousin. His cousin created a voice chat for all three of us to talk while far away from each other. His cousin and I are friends so we started talking. We were in a plane flying map with a city and everything. My boyfriend was driving a plane and his cousin liked the ground shooting machines. His cousin went to a city building and was saying how no one could find him. I was said that I could see his name. I told him ...
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I an beginning to think that my "friends" are not actually my friends
Posted Wednesday December 1 2021, 11:57 pm
Hi, I am from America.
And I've been feeling this way for a really long time about some of my friends that I hang out with frequently. I feel like an outsider among them, which is weird because i've known some of them since we were in middle school. The one friend from middle school in particular feels like a different person now from when we were both in middle school, she constantly wants to talk about politics and only ever seems to want to talk about herself in relation to a majority of the topics I bring up. She never used to be like this, but now I feel that I dislike a majority of what we talk about most of the time. It wouldn't be so bad, if I didn't feel like she was subtly belittling me. She sometimes brings up my ethnicit...
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Did I make the right decision in ending a ten year friendship?
Posted Tuesday November 30 2021, 9:27 pm
28/f
I've been trying to figure out whether or not I've made the right decision in cutting my friend of 10 years out of my life.
When my dad passed away in March, I told everyone (including my friends), that I was going to go off grid for awhile to regroup, which also meant that I wasn't going to respond to anyone until I was ready. All of them met me with support and understanding.
One of these friends, was a girl friend of mine from high school. We used to have a lot of things in common, but I think life pulled us in different directions, but yet we were still able to remain friends. Two weeks after I have told everyone I was going to be off grid, she just texted me "hey." I didn't respond to her mai...
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My mother has a problem with me smoking tree
Posted Wednesday November 17 2021, 12:04 pm
First off I want to say that yes I care for my mother very much ever since the loss of my sister in 2001 it has been very difficult on me and her. But I feel at times that she's trying to change me into the person I used to be... quiet,shy, never had an opinion and if I did I kept it to myself.
I love the person that I am becoming more and more everyday.. and it's not because of the smoking tree. It's because I am finally working, taking care of my kids and my self, I'm with a man that helps me to be better and do better daily for my kids. She doesn't understand that I have had extreme depression because a lot of things that have happened in my life, it all started when I was 4 yrs old and was hurt by my dad's brother., nobod...
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i used my sisters vibrator
Posted Wednesday November 17 2021, 7:19 am
hii i used my sisters vibrator not thinking and she doesnt have stds but for the past couple of weeks ive been itchy every so often and my vag smell smells diff im 13
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I want to move to another state but I need a job
Posted Monday November 15 2021, 9:57 am
My lease is up in January and I’m thinking about moving to another state. I currently live in apartment and I realize that maybe living alone isn’t the best thing for me right now. I talked to my sister and she said I could live with her. She has a nice house and a spare room for me. I feel good about moving but at the same time I like my current job. At the moment it’s remote until next year but I don’t know the exact day I need to to return to the office. Im currently applying for jobs in the state I want to live but don’t know if I’ll have new job before my lease is up. What should I do?
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Advice on keeping rabbits
Posted Thursday November 11 2021, 12:39 pm
Please advice on keeping rabbits at home.
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Codependent mother in law
Posted Thursday November 11 2021, 9:27 am
I am a 25 year old engaged to a man whose mother makes it very clear to me that she is absolutely in love with her son. Her son is “the love of her life, the only love of her life, the light of her world, That even though he’s almost 30 she still sees him as the little baby boy in all those pictures, he will always be my baby boy” and she makes very odd comments such as “he is so good looking he’s even good looking with his shirt off.” Although her and I have a very good relationship, pretty much since we’ve gotten engaged she makes these comments towards me that make me feel like the two of them are the dynamic duo. I’ve been planning a surprise 30th birthday for him for about six months and I included his mother because I ...
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What can I do right now so I wont face heart problems in near future?
Posted Monday November 1 2021, 11:22 pm
My name is Svetlana and I am 28 years old. I live with my old parents and take care of them. My dad is old and it hard for me to deal with his personality. Lately, he humiliates me and my mom, he is rude to us and sometimes screams at us. He forgets everything, always angry and never satisfited with anything. I understand that he is really old now and deals with a lot of pain, maybe even with depression but it's hard for me not to take his words and actions to heart. My mom also takes it to heart and I always calm her down, I'm like her psychologist. But I'm hiding my own pain deep inside and I cry a lot when no one sees me.I have severe anxiety and sleep disorder already five years. My dads dramas costs me nights of not sleeping or having ...
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Trusting my husband when he is still friends with his ex?
Posted Sunday October 31 2021, 10:04 am
my husband is still friends with his ex. They have also been friends since they were teenagers through now. He had got her flowers about 6 months before we started dating, then a few weeks into our dating relationship, he took leave and and he had hung out with her back home. They went rock climbing and out to Olive Garden.
He never told me nor did he mention it was his ex. I seen a post on her Instagram and that’s how I found out. I got a little worried since I had seen a reciept that he got her flowers 6 months previous. I was thinking maybe he still had feeling for her. And I was upset that he never mentioned it was his ex. I let it go, cause we’re just dating and he’s allowed to have girl friends. Well we ended up getting ...
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Olympics
Posted Sunday October 31 2021, 6:12 am
How to become an olympian?
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Who is in the wrong? Me or my husband?
Posted Saturday October 30 2021, 4:51 pm
My daughter is 14 and I’ve been married to my husband since she was three. He has always been there for her as a great stepdad. My daughter’s room is downstairs and even though she is 14 he still goes downstairs every night to sleep next to her after I fall asleep at 3:00am. Then comes back up every morning around 7am. I know nothing is going on and my daughter is completely comfortable around him, she says nothing but good things. I have talked to her and she insists that she is fine with him doing this. However, I am not fine with this because she is fourteen and doesn’t need a grown adult sleeping next to her every night. I told him how I felt and that he doesn’t need to do that anymore but all he says is “you can’t tell me ...
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Should I contact my estranged sister?
Posted Saturday October 23 2021, 5:35 pm
My sister is a lot older than I am and was kicked out when I was a toddler for being gay. I'm 15 now and she's 29, and the family hasn't had any contact with her since then. I found her on IG a while back and have been keeping up with her. I don't follow her or anything, just look at what she posts so it's not like she knows I found her. I obviously don't remember her, I've just seen pics of her and have heard some stories about her from cousins. I feel like our parents would be mad if I reached out, but she seems cool and I would love to talk to her. I don't care that she's a lesbian and I think what our parents did was really wrong. I'm just nervous at how she's going to react, I know that she has to remember me, and I know that I didn't ...
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Should I keep this gift or not?
Posted Tuesday October 19 2021, 6:34 am
Right before Holidaze break of 2019, the people who are majors and minors of my department in college all went to our department chair’s home and did the usual Xmas gift exchange thing. I’m in the theater department, so of course there are all kinds of crazy gifts (including a brand new cue ball, like the kind that goes with a pool table) and all kinds of swapping. I got the gift from this older gay guy named Jeremy. It was a roll of toilet paper which had pictures of Jeremy on every sheet, and it was on both sides of the toilet paper (like alternating, one picture on the outside of one sheet and the next sheet has the picture on the other side.) Jeremy said that he wanted to give a gift that “people could actually use”. He had peel...
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I thought he was moving in October
Posted Monday October 18 2021, 9:38 pm
I’ve been dealing with an annoying neighbor for over a year. He used to wake me up with his alarm. That has since stopped but he’s louder than the other neighbors that lived there before him. Honestly, I never heard them at all. Granted some people are more quiet than others. But, I also think the thin walls play a role. So, when October came I was for sure he would have been moved out or evicted because the property manager came to his door asking for rent shortly after he moved in which was sometime in October. Than, maybe a few months ago there was a note left on his door. So, I assumed he’d been gone my now since it’s been a year. I can’t imagine they will allow someone to renew their lease if they have noise complaints and pa...
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Confusion with a boy
Posted Monday October 18 2021, 2:02 pm
So, I like a boy. He seems to have a lot of interest in me, and I like him too. But here’s the problem. He says he likes someone else, but also shows that he likes me as well. I’m confused and he’s confusing my brain. I truly don’t know what to do but I like him a lot
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