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Annoying straight girl
Posted Saturday December 10 2016, 11:51 am
Ok first off I'm a lesbian. I came out a couple months ago to people at my school, and I've been out to my family for about a year now. I've gotten good reactions except this one girl, who isn't exactly a homophobe but annoys me all the same. So she keeps referring to me as her "favorite lesbian" "lesbian friend" "best lesbian friend" etc. Like she brags to other people about how her "best friend" is gay, and if she sees me in the hallway she'll be like "AMIRA MY FAVORITE LESBIAN!1!1!" (I'm saying my real name because it's a common Arabic girl name.) In her bio she lists her friends and writes a comment about them. Mine is "Amira (fave. Lesbian friend) and in one of her snapchat stories...
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I feel unwanted
Posted Thursday December 1 2016, 12:34 am
Hey I'm 14 years old female. And I go to middle school. So I've always been very shy and it's very hard for me to warm up to people. I go to a different school as my best friend and my other friends(it took a while to find the right people), so ever since year 7 I've been pretty lost. This year in year 8 I have a close group of friends, and some others, they've been very nice and stuff, but they've made other friends as well and it seems like they get close so easily, like they're all nice to me in school and hangout and stuff but seldom ask me to hang out out side of school. I have friends, but it seems like our friendships just stay there and we don't seem to get any closer. I don't know if it's my fault or maybe it's just life. Advice is appreciated thank you
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Drifting apart with a friend :(
Posted Wednesday November 30 2016, 1:45 am
I have been friends with this one girl ever since fifth grade. We are practically twins and we both love drawing things from the same fandom, same species, and you could not meet a better pair of friends. We've never argued, and we can always tell what one another is thinking.
Once she moved away right before sixth grade started, we still kept in contact a lot, but once seventh grade started (or when sixth grade was ending, somewhere around there) she met this girl who was a year younger and they both liked drawing, they hit it off, and I really still have not made any friends at my school yet. Her new friend does not seem to want anything to do with me, and lately it seems she's been paying more attention to her and not me. I guess ...
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I feel angry at my friend
Posted Tuesday November 29 2016, 1:42 am
I'm nearly 14. So I used to have this small group of friends, I'll name them L, R, T and O. So we are very good friends and very closely knitted. However me and O just joint the group, and I know we are way too old for this, but T and R are fighting over L, L is pretty and popular. In an occasion, L met up with H, who is also very popular, then L pretty much hangs out with her now and replaced her with all of us, they are like BFF's now, this also brought us into H's huge group, where she is the leader. T is extremely clingy, and she still haven't given up on L, but develops a liking for H, though L and H don't like T very much, they are extremely nice to her, and me, R and O are quite stressed as we are mad that T did all these ignorant th...
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I had sex with him and keep being friend. Possible or impossible?
Posted Sunday November 20 2016, 12:44 am
I have an old friend who lives far away and we've been chatting through messenger or other messaging apps for almost two years after i found him on facebook. Some months ago i visited his country (germany) for work (pleasure as well), we met and together for a view days. We made love on the second day and afterwards, eat, picnic, met his mom, or hanging out, etc. He always had plans and prepared for entertaining me, i am a guess after all. After i back to my home, we are still doing the chat until now. He calls me some endearment las usual. I've told him that i love him but i dont need us to be a special. Honestly i want keep him as a best friend and he seems okay. He doesn't tell me he loves me back either and i dont need that.
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theyre always leaving me out of things?
Posted Saturday November 12 2016, 8:05 pm
Ive talked about these two girls before but now i really have to get this off of my chest. So i met these two girls named amber and kayla on my schools facebook page. Amber and kayla didnt know each other prior to the page as well. So in the summer amber and i would literally talk every single day until the day we met. Kayla and i didnt really talk at all so i understand why she doesnt talk to me as much either. But basically ever since i met amber in person im even lucky if a get a response back from her on facebook now. Yeah i understand the school year is busy but its not that busy, facebook lets you know when the last time a person has been online and Amber gets on everyday. Anyways i tried making plans with kayla and amber and they wou...
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wait it out or just make a move
Posted Friday November 11 2016, 3:37 pm
I do like him...well ....
he looks to be about 36, im 32 female but I look young.....anyway he stares at me and smiles with all 32 teeth showin, (he is fluffy, im normally not into teddy bear type men, but this guy seems diff, compared to the other men ive crushed on and asked out.....and he has nice teeth and boy is he sexxi), everytime he sees me....as if he is extra happy to see me, i only see him maybe once or twice a week.....then he speaks in a shy low toned voice when im leaving and he'll tell me to have a nice a day , he's been doing this for months now...... I want to approach him, but I do NOT wanna get my feelings hurt again...(yeah ive asked men out in the past and that did not turn out as planned)..what should...
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I feel unwanted and boring.
Posted Friday November 4 2016, 7:50 pm
Female, 15
I am part of a pretty close knit group of about 7 people. We spend every recess and lunch together and we catch up frequently. We always are talking on our group chat and sharing things in our Facebook group. They're all my best friends. However, because we're all growing, our group isn't what it used to be. People are finding new interests and changing/growing.
I am quite weird and random, and sometimes I guess I come across as annoying to those who don't understand my humour. I love philosophy and am very curious about the world. I love nature and music. My friends don't really have that in common with me.
Recently every time I talk none of them listen to me, or they tell me I'm ann...
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My friend seems to be mad
Posted Friday November 4 2016, 2:16 am
I go to middle school. I have a close group of friends whom I always hang out with, sometimes along with other people. So I'll name them L, J, R and O. So I am closer to J and R as they always stand up for me, help me and laugh with me. L is also a great friend, but I don't know her as well. O joined us last term. So last week L threw a party inviting T R and some others. I asked R and figured L was mad at me for unknown reasons. O wasn't invited either so we talked a bit about it. At school me and L are still friendly and nice to eachother, and nobody brought the party up. But I'm still confused as I've been to all of L J R's houses and we've been shopping and stuff a couple of times. I don't know what I've done wrong as I'm usually carefu...
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Daughter not settling after move
Posted Thursday November 3 2016, 8:24 pm
So let's start with I have three kids my oldest daughter is 12 my son is 10 and my younger daughter is 3. In June we moved so me and my husband relocated about 5 hours away from our old home for job purposes. In August the older kids started school. Ever since my son has talked about new friends and clubs and classes. But my daughter on the other had is now very boxed in and unlike our own home has had no sleepovers or friends over. I thought this was just her starting to block me out as a teen but the other night she came and cried to me about not having friends and wanting to move again. She is a very nice girl and I'm now regretting the move. It seems her old friends have blocked her out too. PLEASE HELPðŸ˜
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I need advice
Posted Wednesday November 2 2016, 11:47 pm
Hey there.
I am nearly 14, and I have pretty decent friends at school. My group is pretty closely knitted and I always liked it.
My friends do invite me to events, and I've been to their houses and stuff a couple of times. But this weekend, I found out that they threw a party without me. I don't know what I've done wrong, and I don't know what to think of it. I thought they were my friends.
Please help.
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No one texts me unless I text them first?
Posted Saturday October 29 2016, 2:39 pm
It's getting to the point where I'm starting to get depressed. As the years went by I started having less and less friends and more acquaintances, in my senior year of high school I knew the friends I had there weren't going to be my friends after high school only because when we were together we only talked about school, at prom we took prom pics together but I didn't see them at all after that. When we texted it was always about school and once we graduated summer came along and guess who was right? Me nobody texted me anymore cause there was nothing to text about, we have each other on snapchat so instead of texting you could just watch someone's snapchat story to see what they're up to. Then I have another group of friends whom I was fr...
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I don't know what to say
Posted Saturday October 29 2016, 12:23 pm
I told a past friend that was my friend that I wasn't talking bad about them and their friends had heard wrong and there had been a lot of drama that happened between me and this individual and they said back to me "Dude I'm not on the drama either, that's why I keep blocking you and your friends that mention you." I don't know what he's referring to but he blocked me on social media before that and I assume it's because he doesn't want any drama and he thinks that more might come up. I don't know what to tell him but I want to prove to him that I'm not in or about to start drama
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What I could do now
Posted Tuesday October 25 2016, 11:24 am
Have had this friend name Robert that has been through high school with me all the way and has stuck by my side through my highest and lowest points and has prevented many incidents where I could have been in serious trouble and he clearly stated to me and others that he never gave up on me or left because he believes in me and knows that I have potential and both of us are seniors in our school's band program. Some stuff happened yesterday and I got him called into a room with a school staff member and we talked through my concerns and he clearly stated to me that he wasn't mad at me and that I he and I were still friends and there was never a time when we weren't friends but he asked me bluntly with no exceptions what he could to to keep ...
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My friend wants me to hold a lot of money for him, should I do it?
Posted Wednesday October 12 2016, 4:35 pm
So here's the story.
My friend is from France and he goes to college here in America. He wound up agreeing to marry a girl here so he could get his green card and because she seemed really nice. They wound up creating a joint bank account and everything to make the government believe they really loved each other.
Well she wound up becoming a monster after he married her. She quit working, lives in his apartment, uses his car, and cheats on him all the time even in his own place. He gets paid mostly in tips and only has the one bank account (with her) since he's not a full citizen for another 2 years.
Well she's been immediately taking his money out of their account and spending it on strange things li...
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In an Exam u help someone and he gets bad marks and blames it on you. What
Posted Monday October 10 2016, 10:47 am
well in my school we had this exam and one guy i thought trusted me and i thought we were like best friends.So while the exam goes on he asks me the answers and i have to tell him bcuz i trusted him and he helped me out few times. but then after the exam the marks got out.i had way better marks than him. he is telling everyone that i'm a jerk, lier, cheater.i never thought he would do that. help me pls. and dont ask me that y i told him the answers in the first place.i know, i was stupid. he is passing false rumor abt me. wat should i do. say something or let him do this to me. What should i tell him.btw i cant tell anyone bcuz reasons. and he has like a gang and does this. i mean its been over a year now. i have to do something. but WHAT??...
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Always the third friend?
Posted Thursday October 6 2016, 1:10 pm
I thought by the time i graduated high school I would've escaped being the third friend and for once finally be someone's priority. If you don't know what a third friend is it's basically third wheeling two bestfriends, no matter how many times I've tried in all my group of friends I was always the third friend. So university comes around and I made two new friends from my schools Facebook page, none of us knew each other prior to the page but once we did we all became like a little trio, so me and let's say Amber used to talk every single day in the summer until we met and now I'm even lucky enough to receive a response from her, she said she's always busy with school which I believe her because she's in the sciences and plays on the varie...
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friend purposely ignores text messages?
Posted Friday September 30 2016, 11:39 am
So before class i texted my friend to see where she was so we could sit beside each other about 15 mins later she replied and said she came late to class so i told her i'll hang with her after class, then as soon as class ended, her and her friends basically bolted out the door and when i texted her asking her where did she go?, she didnt respond i even double texted her and she didng respond and before you say maybe she didnt get it or was busy, first of all her phone is always in her hand, second of all she still hasnt texted me back at all, she usually really only texts me to hangout at school when her other friends are busy, i don't really have any friends at this new school because the friends i did make our schedules to match up so i ...
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I'm in love with my little brother!
Posted Wednesday September 28 2016, 2:14 pm
OKAY DONT PANIC, I just call him little brother. Not literally don't worry.
Now here're the facts:
-He's 3 years younger than me and we're both teens
-We've both done very sexual things
-We're both bisexual males, in that we've liked both girls and guys romantically.
Okay, it all started when we were both young, we met and became good friends. When we grew up, we experienced different things, he told me about it, and I told him about mine. When he and his boyfriend broke up I was the one to console him and after a year from the break up, here we are.
Now here's the problem. I've had relationships with guys before, and before they were my boyfriends, they were first my "l...
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Help making friends
Posted Friday September 23 2016, 5:04 am
24/f
I've never had close friends since I was 8 years old. Thinking about this has always made me feel painfully sad but I don't know what to do anymore. I've never had a group of people to just hang out during the weekend, and I can't figure out what's wrong with me.
Some background:
My family moved country when I was 8. I was sent to very affluent girl only middle school and high schools where I was at the bottom of the social ladder and faced mean-girl style bullying. My mom was also pretty controlling and has OCD so she didn't let me go out much or always made me take along my older brother who has Aspergers to the few things I was invited to.
I thought college would be better but it w...
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