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theyre always leaving me out of things?
Ive talked about these two girls before but now i really have to get this off of my chest. So i met these two girls named amber and kayla on my schools facebook page. Amber and kayla didnt know each other prior to the page as well. So in the summer amber and i would literally talk every single day until the day we met. Kayla and i didnt really talk at all so i understand why she doesnt talk to me as much either. But basically ever since i met amber in person im even lucky if a get a response back from her on facebook now. Yeah i understand the school year is busy but its not that busy, facebook lets you know when the last time a person has been online and Amber gets on everyday. Anyways i tried making plans with kayla and amber and they would always come up with excuses like "i have an assignment or im in class" which i believe but now i think theyre just trying to politely cut me off because Kayla and amber have hung out 3 times probably more (ive only seen them together 3 times on ambers snapchat) so i confronted Amber one time saying "wow thanks for the invite guys" and amber said "it was last minute and not planned and she asked if i was free the day after" but i didnt respond because Amber was probably asking me to hangout out of pity. Then after that amber stopped showing who she was with on snapchat but little does she know is i have kayla on snapchat too so when amber doesnt post kayla posts. So im ranting right now because on friday kayla and amber hungout the whole freaking day (didn't tell me) and then went to a basketball game. I would confront them but whats the point? If you have read up to here and follow what ive been saying it would be lovely if you could give me advice on this situation. Also with kayla and amber if i dont message them i wont hear from them at all. Im always the one to message them first. When i see Amber in person ( she has a class before me) im usually the one that goes up to her and says hi (except for thursday the only reason she said hi to me was because we were walking past each other and gave each other eye contact). When it was ambers birthday i messaged her happy birthday and said hopefully me, her and kayla will be able to find a way to hangout with each other. Amber replied and said " thank you girl and im praying for that day to come" that day couldve literally came on friday if they just freaking invited me. Then when kayla posted on ambers wall happy birthday then amber said " omg ily so much" which pissed me off cause that means that theyre closer than i thought. Ive been trying to be friends with them and they just brush me off like wtf. You might be wondering why im not really talking about kayla but its because i dont see her at all on campus, ive only seen her once (in september) and me and her dont really have anything to talk about. Lastly before you say " how about making your own plans with them instead of expecting them to invite you" i did multiple times and they would come up with excuses which were believable at first but clearly theyre not that busy if they have time to hangout with each other. Kayla i mostly believe cause judging from her snapchats she rarely leaves her dorm, amber on the other hand....anyways info on us are we are first year university students
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i am sorry they did this to you. sounds like a loss cuase. best find better friends and maturely confront amber if she still dont give answer end the friendship. put away reminders and know nothing you did, its her being ugly. a real friend would include you and make an effort. relationships are two way streak not one.
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